Mom wont let me do anything!?

Question

My mom is one of the most strict parents ever. She is so bad that She will call my friends parents to askk if its ohkay for them to be by my house. Even if they just stopped by in front of the drive way! If i go to a friends house she must call them and talk to them. She calls me every hour! Askks me where I am at. What i have been doing && who is at the house. its horrible! It doesnt even stop there! She lurks my AIM. She has other screenames I dont know aboutt and watches me through there. I cant stand itt! She will be looking at my history too. I am at my grandmas house so shes nott over my shoulder rite now. But she will come here and check the history. [i know how to delete this] Im also nott alowed to go to the library! Its nott like i live in a bad neighbor hood. Its the type of neighborhood where people are outtside all the time cutting thier grass and talking with neighbors. I don't know what to do! Shes not even in town. Shes been outt of town for 2 months and ive been staying at my g-mas. You are probally thinking how does she keep track of me if shes all the way across the country? Well she makes me IM her and she calls me. All day shes on her phone and i MUST answer every IM. Its horrible! Last night i got really mad and told her " I treat you nicely! I never do anything bad. && u take me for graunted! U dont even trust me! You expect me to sit here and IM you all day. Well sometimes i want to go outt!" She yelled at me told me she was comming home and all these things. Ive told her a couple of times " i dont do anything. why dont u trust me?" && she says "its not u. i dont trust other people" Im 13! whats the worse i can do in an hour with my friends and thier moms rite next to me? What can i do about this?

Answer 1

I know exactly how you feel except, im 18 and im already in college, but living at home, just earlier today i wanted to go walk around the block with my friends cause they were trick or treating or whatever and she told me i couldnt go, i mean c'mon. wow it drove me insane, like my friends are all younger then me (seniors in high school) and theyre parents just give them curfew and say be home by 12 or 1 they dont ask questions or call a billion times while your out like mine! its whack!! and quite frankly im sick of it. I wanted to leave earlier and my mom said if you want to go get your clothes and call your friends so i did just that, then all of a sudden she comes and says what do you think your doing with that bag of clothes, and i said im leaving she said no your not and starting telling me all this bullshit how she was gonna call the cops, its nonsense. im 18 she cant do s**t! and she said i couldnt take any of my clothes, that whoever i lived with had to provide. WTF is that? she is mental. so now im contemplating, what would happen if i did leave? i dont have a car or a job so i wouldnt be able to get around, and i was gonna live at a friends but she has her own life so i wouldnt really want to bother alot. so now im here in front o my computer googlin if i should go or what i should do? how will i make it to school. it sucks i have no clue wohat the f im doing right now! i cant do this. its driving me to the brink of insanity. Im here already f**k!