Moms: How can I convince her that I HATE him!?

Question

Key:

J- guy I hate

D- guy I like

Ok, so my mom likes J. I hate him. But she's only seen him ONCE and know she loves him! She didn't even talk to him! And she hates D, who she's never even seen. But she likes J even though I've everything to show her that I hate him. I've even blacked him out of my yearbook! How can I convince her that I like D and hate J?

And D has done nothing bad, so I dn't know why she hates him!

Answer 1

Just tell your mom that its your choice and if she doesn't like him then its not your problem. If you don't like him then she should have no say. Besides, it's not like she's going to date him so she should just butt out.

Answer 2

I know its hard when your parents disagree with who you want to be with. But as you know your mum is being really unfair, if she has no reason to hate D. Then her opionion shouldn't matter to you. Try not to let it bother you, if your mum loves J, good for her. Shes not the one dating either of them. Its totally your choise. She will never see J again so doesn't matter if she loves him. Introduce her to D so she can see what you see in him :). If it doesn't help then don't worry, like I said its you dating the guy, not your mum.

Answer 3

... why does it matter if your mom likes or dislikes these guys?  Chill out.