my mom has a boyfriend whos lived with us for a long time. hes like my second dad. but i have a problem with him. whenever my brother does something wrong, or at least everyone THINKS he did something wrong (which is usually the case), my mom starts nagging at my brother while her boyfriend calls him names, like tard (r****d) and stuff. whenever he does, i tell him to shut it because its immature to be calling a 12 year old boy a r****d and "p**s pants" and lots of stuff like that (my brother isnt retarded, and he has a bladder problem so he has to wear diapers when he goes to bed). of course, my moms boyfriend starts yelling at me to shut up and mind my own business and that what he says is true, then my mom gets involved, and tells me to go upstairs and be quiet, then she usually gets on to him for calling my brother names. i mean, honestly, how immature is it for a 45 year old man to be calling a 13 year old boy names and talking about him behind his back (he does that too). but the thing is, is that this keeps happening and its getting ANNOYING!!!! plus my brother is entering middle school so his self esteem level could get really low. what should i do?
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