Moms! dads! help a teenager plz! i dont feel.................?

Question

i dont feel comfortable talkin to my mom about "relationships" lyk a had a bf and i didnt tell her. and when we broke up i was so hurt but i acted lyk nothin was rong. she didnt even no wat was goin on and i just dont no how to open up to her. i really dont feel comfortable talkin to her lyk dat. the ppl i do open up to are my friends but they cant decide if i can go on a date with a guy or not. u no wat i mean. i think that i could tell my aunts or uncles that i lyked this guy but i just dont feel comfortable tellin my older sister(22) and my mom & dad. i mean i can even tell my friends mom but not my own. how can i tell my mom that i want to go on this "date" thing?

any pointers out there? thanx appreciate it!! i really do! this goes with a question that i asked earlier today....its lyk my mom dad sister dont no...... i forgot but its sumtin lyk dat but yeah. plz check it out if u can find it. it really does help a lot....its totally worth it

im almost 15. lyk 3 more months until thin and i havent ever told her. plz help.

and u no every one that helps me makes me feel better about stuff. it really does and i appreciate it so much. lyk i cant even tell u

Answer 1

do u purposely misspell words like that?

Answer 2

your mom probably still sees you as a little kid, they dont remember

that todays kids are more active, I spoke to my daughter about

s*x by 10 and dating by 13, young teenagers have to be open to

parents, your friends is a good backup but dont forget your mom, I

kknow it might be a little embarassing at first but you wont regret it in the long run shell trust you more when you ask her for that date. I had

a very hard time with my daughter letting her go when she asked me to

let her go to a movie she was 13, at first I thought she was just a baby

but she already had a crush on someone, so I took baby steps.

Good luck with your mom and family!!!

Answer 3

oh my gosh! she isnt gonna think you are mature enough to date if you cant even spell...

other than that, just tell her you have been talking to a boy and he wants to take you out to a movie or something. She isnt gonna freak out or make it awkward.

Answer 4

Whew!!!!  Tough for an old guy to read!  Where's my Advil?

Anyway, I supect the problem may reside in the fact that you are too young to date.  Boyfriend might be okay.  Exclusive relationship and dating at 14; I wouldn't have it.  Perhaps you know that your mother might have concerns about that sort of thing at your age as well.

We all knew the cool parents that the young people could chill with and discuss just about anything.  Experience has proven to me that as the years go by, these "cool" parents usually turn out to be pretty lousy parents.

Be sure of one thing.  No one loves you like your Mom.  Your Mom would never ever tell you anything that wasn't in your best interest.  She will, from time to time, tell you things you don't want to hear.  But you can be certain she has always got your back.

If you are as grown as you want to be, have an adult conversation with your mother and cease the juvinile "lyk lyk dat."