Moms only!?

Question

im 13 and i wear diapers to bed and on long car rides. my mom puts them on me and changes them for me. she is afraid that i wil pee my pants or even p**p in them at school and she wants me to wear diapers to school and have the nurse change them if neccesary. but otherwise as a just in case.

as a mom wat do u think of this?

including havin her change them and all the other stuff.

btw im 13

Answer 1

Go to the doc and get the appropriate meds. And you should be changing yourself.

Answer 2

why are you asking this question again??? and you changed it too.

Answer 3

There is medicine for overactive bladder. Have you tried it. I do not see why you need to wear a diaper. They make pads that you can slip in your underwear instead of wearing a bulky diaper. I think you are old enough to change your own diapers anyways. Dont you have a period yet? Does she change those also. If she does, you need to talk to a counselor at school or someone you trust. That sounds like it could be some sort of controlling emotional abuse. I am sorry you are having to deal with these things at your age. Keep your head up.

Answer 4

I think that you are old enough to change your diapers yourself.

Answer 5

Ok, this is sick and wrong... first, if you're being honest, that she changes them for you when you sound perfectly fine, that is WEIRD... Yikes.

If I had a child who was perfectly capable of doing that, I would NOT be wiping their behind... sorry, but you are old enough to be doing that!!! I dunno, this is just strange.

Answer 6

Isn't their medicine you can get to help with that so you can be  more independent?  You may also want to speak with a counselor at school if this problem bothers you and you need someone to speak to other than your mom or doctor.

Answer 7

Every word you are saying is a lie.  No doctor would say it's OK for your mother to change your diaper like an infant (from your other question) and no school nurse would be allowed to do it.

Even if this were true, then both you and your mother would be mentally ill to be involved in this sort of thing.

Answer 8

I don't think your mom should be putting them on and taking them off of you.  Your old enough to be on the computer by yourself your definatly old enough to change yourself.  For school i would recomend Poise Pads.  They're for over-active bladders.  Have you talked to a doctor about this?  I think the doctor could put you on something to try and help.

Answer 9

My son's friend had a bedwetting problem until age 13 but he would never allow his mother to change his diaper for him.    Unless you have no arms or have a very serious disability involving your arms and/or legs then I don't see why you can't change it yourself.   Have some dignity.    If your  mother is changing your diaper against your will then that would be abusive.

Answer 10

They don't have the pull-up kind you can put on for yourself sweety???? I'm not trying to be rude at all but my 4 year old can use the bathroom on her own. This is not to make light of your situation....I say that to say that you should be able to change your own diaper! If you can put on underwear and wipe yourself...you should be good to go! Good luck!

Answer 11

They make medication for that. You need to change yourself, you're thirteen. She needs to get you on medication for that issue.

Answer 12

As a mom, I think that if my son has any need to wear diapers at 13, he can change them himself--unless he is physically unable do so.

Answer 13

omg, honey does she do that because you have bladder problems or you wet the bed or what?

Answer 14

step away from the doobie

Answer 15

The question is, how do you feel about this?!?  I understand wearing them to bed, but I feel like she needs to let you go up.  And she actually changes you?  That's WAY overboard!  You can change yourself.  But a lot of kids have this problem its not just you, but she needs to let you have some control over yourself.  I hope things get better for you.

Answer 16

go see a doctor. they can fix these kinds of things.

do you have an overactive bladder?

or and overactive imagination?

Answer 17

if you have bladders problems you need to see a dr to see if there is something wrong if you are 13 you are to old to be wearing diapers especially if your mom is changing them for you.  you are a teenager and need space.  i would talk to your school counselor to see if you can get help.  its really weird.  sorry.