My husband is very stubbron, I love him dearly and i don't want a divorce but sometimes he can drive me crazy to the point where i don't ever want to see him again.... I'm a fulltime student we only have 1 car, and we have 2 kids... I wanted a used crappy car for school, but my husband said we couldn't afford it and instead he wanted to buy a harley davidson motorcycle (yeah exactly) well it worked out well for the summer, but now our kids start school (different schools at that) we only have 1 car and 1 motorcycle, what can we do about winter when it snows, i'm in school all day everyday he works 2nd shift,all of a sudden he wants a used car to get him to work, but still keep the motorcycle.. so now he wants to get a part time job during the mornings to pay for his new "used" car, i said NO because we can't afford it... instead of buying the car when i told him now we owe the car we have, the motorcycle and the car he wants, it's crazy... He barely makes enough to pay our normal bills,i he doesn't understand, he always gets what he wants and i'm sooo tired of it, he doesn't listen to me when i say no and i've had it.. I don't have a job, he's the only one bringing in the money, thousands of times i said i'll quit school to get a crappy job, but he says no to finish it... Yet all the d**n time, he's arguing with me and telling me that i don't have a job so i can't say anything about the way he spends money.. He's a good husband, except when it comes to money and him getting everything he wants, he'll put up a fight, make me feel like c**p, tells me to leave him if i don't like it, and i don't know what to do anymore.. I have nowhere to go with my 2 kids, he breaks my heart sometimes and all i can do is cry...plz help!
p.s. we've been married 5 yrs, he doesn't want to go to counseling, and he wants another baby knowing i can't since i'm in school for Radiation Therapy and it takes up all my time.. He thinks i won't be working as hard as i say once school starts, I'll be volunteering at the hospitals and in classes from 8 am till 8 pm..
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