More Confidence?

Question

Everybody likes a confident person, whether its because they are easy to chat to, fun to be around or don't take any c**p.

Through school I was very shy and had zero confidence, it has grown since then and I have improved alot - but it still needs work.

How can I become that person who doesn't take c**p, doesn't care what other people think and speaks their mind?

Answer 1

Everyone has to take some c**p every now and again.  It's how one handles it that makes the difference.  A confident person handles themselves by not worrying about it and moving on.  A confident person has the ability to "lose the battle to win the war" and can act accordingly.

I can relate to your situation as it parallels mine.  Good luck in your quest.

Answer 2

Every thing revolves around habits.....understand that and you will blaze with confidence....like me.

Answer 3

you have to control your emotions because it will disrupt the intellect so you will be making wrong decisions. also be smooth and cool when facing other people. be presentable and when the praises start it will kept on rolling