I adopted my daughter who was 13 now 16.She is not doing good at all. In the last month she has stabbed someone with a pen, started kicking, screaming, and throwing fits. She also tried to sneak out on a field trip when she wasn't supposed to. Now, she is looking at possibly being moved to stricter treatment. The girl we saw yesterday is not the one we have known for 5 years. They are saying that she will need to be in assisted living treatment for a long time, into her 20's unless she starts taking responcibility for her actions. She is only in the 9th/ grade so that puts her lower academicly, too. She is very smart, I mean truely. But she refuses to follow rules of any kind. I can not say how many times the councilor said, "she is totally defiant" yesterday. I do know that she can change if she wanted too. But what's sad is there's alot of people that blame her problems on me, IT'S NOT DHS, AND DEFINITY NOT THE ADOPTIVE PARENTS IT"S THE BIRTH PARENTS THAT DAMAGED THEM.
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