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I have a 17 month old in open adoption. I picked out her parents and i'm allowed to see her on the weekends. When people find out she's in adoption and i see her some say why you gave her up should you just let go and let them lead there lives. My case worker got mad every single time i used those words gave up she's says that i intrusted them with my child to give her the things i just couldnt and she's right. When i knew what my choice would be i have never onced said her adoptive mom's name to her i have always said mommy same with her dad. I dont call myself your birthmother or mommy Rachel its just always been Rachel.I choose them because i liked them the best and they have a somewhat simlair way of how i would rasie her if i had her. If they do something that i wouldnt i dont say oh you cant do it that way i have no right to do that. They dont mind me spending time with her they think i should so why does everyone else have this issue with it. Again just curious about it.
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