More trouble masturbating?

Question

In follow up to my previous question, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmYszJlFtbt3T7v7GDZASRLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080816085210AAApnUQ , I am still having trouble masturbating. I went like 20 minutes straight and nothing happened. To be honest I think my grip and speed is all wrong, because I don't really get a pleasurable and nice sensation at all at the moment, just a very sore c**k (and arm). How hard and fast should I be going, because I have tried thrusting my c**k up and down from once to three times per second, griping hard and soft, and it doesn't feel very nice at all.

All answers appreciated.

To help with your answers, I am 16, not circumcised and my p***s is about 6-7 inches erect.

Answer 1

You say that you are not circumcised which makes me wonder if you should have your doctor check the equipment. Most teens don't make a habit of checking out carefully the equipment of their friends. If you have a tight frenulum this may make you sore and dissatisfied.

Can you pull your f******n all the way back and forward without pain?

Remember the old saying "Easy does it" If you are uncircumcised, you should not have to pound you p***s to ejaculate. You should be able to stimulate your glans with gentle strokes of various kinds. Jackinworld suggested by another poster is  a good suggestion....it is great.

I still feel that you should be examined to see if you have some minor but correctable problem there.  

Answer 2

Only a man can show you how to do it properly (b/c they're owners of the exact same equipment. A woman might show be able to show you, but that's like asking a guy who rents their apartment for a living about a home mortgage and equity. You might as well ask the guy who owns his house. So in light of that...),  get your dad or your brothers to stroke your Peter for ya!

Answer 3

no right answer.  you have to find out for yourself what you like, (speed, grip, which hand, etc) and go from there.  maybe you need something visual.  everyone is different.  you are probably trying to hard and you can't get excited.  it's very much influenced by your emotions.  Also, if you think its "wrong" or a "sin" you may not be able to get excited because of your feelings.  

But, if you are trying and its not feeling good, then it won't feel good.  don't keep trying, just stop and try another day.  try different things to get you excited, keep your mind off of other things.  

But, i think you are just trying too hard and you are not able to relax and try to enjoy it.  kind of like performance anxiety.  

Answer 4

are you using lube? keep it wet, get in a hot shower, and try it there, increase your body heat.. thats a nice size for 16...

Answer 5

i know im a girl and dont know anything about it, but it sounds like your trying too hard. just go with the flow and relax! try not to think about it too much. do what feels best for you.

Answer 6

try tightening your grip

Answer 7

Have someone else do it for you.

Answer 8

watch p**n

Answer 9

I don't think you should be to worried. Was it your first time masturbating?

Maybe your nerves, your excitement, your emotions at the moment could have played a big part in how your body reacted. And now, with our not being able to ejaculate th first time you tried, it may be even more nerve racking the 2nd or 3rd time trying.

I think you should relax and try again. Do not be disgruntled if your "problem" seems to continue a couple more times.

You could even just be a lucky one and last longer than the avarage man....

Best of luck.