Most STRIPPERS AND p**n STARS were abused as kids...why is this??

Question

all the stats and studies say that the vast majority of female p**n stars and strippers were abused, either sexually or otherwise, as children, why is this?

what does this have to do with their decision to do such things when they get older?

Answer 1

It's because they have a low opinion of themselves and are willing to let themselves be taken advantage of as they were as children.  The irony is that although the experience is unpleasant it's more "comfortable" because it's a known experience.

Answer 2

this may be the case as their body has been used as an object in the past aand there fore see this as the normal way of life as they see their bodys as objects and use this as a way to earn money.

Answer 3

Not all stats are 100% accurate.  However, from my understanding, if these girls were sexually abused they no longer see any value to their bodies and do whatever they want to their bodies as they see no point in protecting their already-used/abused bodies anymore.  Some of these sexually abused girls grow up assuming that it's normal for men to violate them or dominate them or use their bodies only for the male's pleasure because that's the type of abuse they've been exposed to throughout their lives.  Other girls do it out of rebellion or to feel love and acceptance from the male gender that they may have not gotten as children.

Again, no single statistic will represent each stripper/p**n star.  For instance, some women do p**n just for the money (who may or may not have been abused when they were younger).  Other girls see no other option then stripping to make end's meet to support themselves and/or dependents.  At the same time, you have to think about the women who were abused as children who are now today's lawyers, social workers, educators, etc who serve as (or should serve as) role models to other girls/women who had abusive pasts.  Yet, we don't hear about them in these stats.  It's so easy to put abused girls/women into these stripper/p**n star molds and the sad thing is, is that these girls grow up seeing that as their only option.  I guess it really depends on the type of environment that these girls grow up in when they're much older...because it really makes you wonder how some of these stripper/p**n stars came from conservative, nuclear family lifestyles and others from unstable abusive ones.

So really, it all depends on girl/woman's overall environment, influences, role models (if any), social atomospher, etc that allow these women to assume that they're no better than a bunch of naked bodies made to entertain the opposite s*x.

Hope this helps!  : )

Answer 4

because they are good looking and open minded

Answer 5

i guess becuase they believe it ok to do that sort of thing or that its normal because of their past

or because of the abuse they feel no self worth or self confidence to do something more wothy or "proper" as a job

Answer 6

Well, they think children like me don’t have mind or won’t mind of what they will do! I saw that too in televisions. It makes me soooo sick specially RAPES and many more!!

I just they’ll cut off this stuffs! They’re really going-O!

I hope I still helped you out though..

--Official Arnela Mae

Answer 7

There own personal boundaries were shattered when they were young, so now they HAVE no boundaries.

Answer 8

I think psychologists have related that:

* These young girls are so damaged that they believe they have no value or their only value is is being a s*x object.    

* They are usually high school dropouts and their employment options are limited.  

* Sometimes they have become addicted to substances that they began to use to escape the memories.  

* They see the p**n industry as a way to make easy money.

Answer 9

Money. Easy way out of having to work for a living.

Answer 10

Show me the money!

What stats and which studies?

Of the studies I remember that was one of the reasons for a minority of them but didn't explain the majority of people in these industries.

Answer 11

If you are sexually abused while young, you are taught to see yourself solely as a sexual object and the sexual act has no more importance to you that scrambling an egg or making a meal.  Even as mundane as making up your bed in the morning.  It is just something that you have to do to survive.  

Since s*x has lost it's significance and connection with love, it is easier for them to do the job.  They have, at an early age, disconnected from their bodies, and can easily mentally disconnect from what their bodies are doing, whether it is giving a lap dace to a hideous ogre, or having s*x with an actor you don't know, in front of the camera.  

I think being a p**n star would be LESS difficult than being a stripper, because you would at least know the person you were having s*x with, and if you were Jenna Jamieson, and owned the company, you could do the hiring and pick someone that you were sexually attracted to.  Doing things of a sexual nature for strangers for money would be the most difficult.  Prostitutes are also often molested as children.