Hi. My name is Ricky. Im 16 years old and live in Connecticut. Me and my girlfriend have been going out since November 8th of '06. In the way beginning, the thought of s*x hadn't even crossed my mind. I cared about her so much and I didn't want to be like my friends pressuring her into anything she didn't want to do, and as well, I wasn't a huge fan of it because I didn't want things to change from how they already were. We started fooling around and doing sexual yet non- "s*x" things, you catch my drift.. about 6 months into dating, and s*x came up in a conversation about 7 1/2 months of dating.. she brought it up to me and asked how I felt about it and I told her I didnt mind waiting, she told me she wanted to wait a few years or atleast a couple of years because she was afraid of pregnancy as well as how it could affect us as a couple. I told her I wouldn't mind waiting a few years or even if we ended up getting married I'd wait until then. I told her it was okay because I loved her, and about 11 months into dating she told me she trusted me enough to do it, and she wanted me to be the one she gave it up to. So we did, I wore protection every time, nothing happened, there was one time I didnt have protection and she ended up wanting to anyways.. luckily she didnt get pregnant then, and I did not _ _ _ inside of her. Ever since that day I was really paranoid because I was afraid she would get pregnant and I know the risks of pregnancy even if you do pull out, so I told her from now on we wear condoms, that was our only time we didnt wear protection, until about 2 1/2 weeks ago. I had protection on me but she jumped on me and pretty much started the whole thing up, i pulled out the condoms but she was too caught up in the moment to stop and think about it, so we did it and i pulled out, but now we're finding out shes pregnant.
At first I was worried, what 16 year old kid wouldn't be? I want to be able to give my kid everything, and wait until im 100% financially stable. As well, I dont know what will happen when I break it to my parents, they dont even know we've had s*x so its hard to tell them shes pregnant when they dont even know its possible considering they dont think we've consented. Im only worried of the consequences, and as well because Im young. We've been together for 2 years, the way I see it is.. I love her enough to start a family with her, but im unsure if Im too young.
Now. Anyone who reads this whole thing, will not write anything regarding what I just wrote. Let me tell you right now that this is a phony question. This is a test to see if people who contribute on this site, truly read everything that a user is questioning help for, and if you do respond to this question with help, that goes to show you havent truly read everything I've had to say. I made this because i have been roaming thru many questions, and some poeple don't seem to care about everything the person has to say, so they critisize them. Lets see how many people who are on here to actually help rather than to rack up points to seem famous on this thing. If you truly read this whole thing, reply with.. haha you got me. Thanks for reading tho and for the people who actually did seem interested. Sorry its a fake.. lol im a virgin =]
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