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Mother and brother problems?

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Okay, i feel like im getting sort of getting left out, or something like that from my familly, because of my wee brother. I am NOT jelous of him, he is soo horrible to me, like he hits, kicks ect. (not saying i dont too back) but then as soon as my mum walks in hes a sweet wee blue eyed boy! I know your thinking this is normal, but, my mum always says things, like when she walks in on me slapping him back she says i bully him and terrify the living daylights out of him, and he plays along, i even get grounded for it. She also always comments on how he is s friendly and lovely ect. to other people and zilch about me! The other day she commented on how he was the only person in the family who cares for her ect. Even when were watching tv she ends up cuddling in to him, saying things like "ohh your just my wee boy, a just love you that much" and doesnt even look at me! She even walks down the street cuddling him and holiding his hands! HE'S ELEVEN! For gods sakes! Is this normal for mothers to be like this when their boys? I'm not saying i want my mum to do all these things to me, im 14, but i just hate how, she always puts me down saying things like "You've got brains but your brothers got personality and that gets you somewhere in life!" ect. ect. She always compaes me to him and i want it to stop! i hate feeling like this all angry as if i hate them.I feel like i have to live up to his expectations and im older than him and were only 11 and 14!!!

What will i do about this?

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  1. Take your mom aside when your brother's not around and tell her what's really going on.  Tell her how he's not as innocent as he seems, and tell her how you feel.  I know saying 'tell her how you feel' may sound baby-ish to you, but sometimes it works.  If it doesn't figure out a way to make your mom catch your brother in the act.


  2. I had a similar problem when I was your age, I took my mum aside one day and just let it all out, I did get upset and cried and I think it made her see how upset I was, she made more effort around me and made more nice comments about me to others and stopped taking sides when me and my siblings had an argument, we all got the same punishment lol  its the best way hun

    Good luck :)  

  3. Just tell them how you feel.

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