My mother is a feminist and could probably be placed in the 'radical feminist' camp. I am a feminist also, but a different breed & we've argued about this to the point where we can't discuss it anymore.
What happens is I will describe something that happens to me (we are both lawyers, so its often around that) but if my experience is different from hers, she will tell me I am wrong and that my opinions are invalid.
A posting on here led me to this Diane Elam quote:
"This problem manifests itself when senior feminists insist that junior feminists be good daughters, defending the same kind of feminism their mothers advocated. Questions and criticisms are allowed, but only if they proceed from the approved brand of feminism. Daughters are not allowed to invent new ways of thinking and doing feminism for themselves"
Its the first time I've read about my experience and it surprised me (& comforted!).
Has anyone else had a similar experience?
any comments or observations?
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