When I first got married to my husband that first year we lived alone in this small apartment that was just perfect for us. In the second year of marriage my MIL got divorced with her husband and moved in with us. Space was getting tight so she suggested to my husband her oldest son that we get something better but only "temporary" until she can get back on her feet. This was 7 years ago and she still lives with us, this time we bought a house and she bought her youngest son ( he is 23 years old) into our house to live with us. The youngest son took my daughter's bedroom and she has the second biggest bedroom in the house. My daughter sleeps with us in our bedroom. Everytime we get into a full blown fight she says that she is leaving the house in a month or some other bull she tells me. I have been hearing this for the last 2 years and I cant take it anymore, she also challenges me on how I raise my child and the discipline I give her. My daughter is at her terrible 2 age and her tantrums are getting out of hand because of my MIL because she gives into her tantrums going against me. Then as usual she gets my husband against me and says how bad i am and all these lies against me. My husband doesnt take it from her hearing bad things about me SOMETIMES, but since I am always telling my husband what she is doing, I am begining to think that he thinks I complain about her to much. I just dont know how to handle her or what to say to her or control her without getting into a huge fight with her and me looking like a bad person in front of my husband. I ask my husband everyday as to when she is leaving and he tells me the same thing. I see our marriage life becoming more and more unhappy. She does not respect me or does not help out with anything does not pay the bills or anything. She is a nightmare, I just need to know how to handle her without my husband and to get her the h**l our of my house. PLEASE HELP!
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