Mothers? Please help I need your opinion?

Question

What do you think of mother's who leave their children?

Answer 1

Leave them as in forever or just to go to work? I think if they leave forever its pretty sad, i mean how can you leave your own flesh and blood that you carried for 9 months?  

Answer 2

I don't personally know how any mother could leave her child. I know the bond isn't as strong with alot of men, because they don't carry them for nine months, and all. Then I see where that nutjob in Ohio microwaved her month old daughter to death, and it just makes me cry. She could have given her away or something, to do something so inhuman just astounds me. They should kill her in the same manner.

Before I had kids, I didn't fully grasp the depth of the bond, but now that I have them, I would die for either one of them in a heartbeat.

Answer 3

I think the ones who leave their children to work out of the house are wonderful!  They are working hard to support their family.

Ones who leave their baby in a dumpster or on the door step of a chrch are criminals, who deserve nothing but to rot in prison.  Such a cold, selfless act.

Now ones who leave their children, as far as adoption goes, they are strong individuals.  

Answer 4

It depends on the circumstances.  Sometimes it requires a lot of strength to admit you can't do something.  If you absolutely can't deal with a baby, then certainly taking baby to a safe harbor is the way to go.  You read all these horror stories about babies in dumpsters, etc.  Those are the people that sicken me, the ones who decide they can't cope and just throw the baby away.  I'd never judge someone for making a decision to give their baby up for adoption-- I'd just think about what the alternative would be, and be thankful.

Answer 5

It depends on the circumstances.

Sometimes they are the most unselfish people in the world.  Knowing that you can't take care of your baby properly and you leave them with someone else even though it's breaking your heart to do it.... that's unselfish.

Answer 6

i think thats the worst thing you could do

Answer 7

Why is it so unbelievable fathers do it why not mothers!

Answer 8

I really have no idea how a mother could leave her child, obviously there is something wrong with her.  I know that men leave their kids all the time and it may be a double standard yadayadayada but as a mother nothing could ever compel me to leave my child.  Obviously a women who leaves her child has something wrong with her.