Mothers behavior influencing daughter?

Question

my husband has a 7 yr old daughter from his 1st wife. she is a good girl,but living with her mother is not the bes thing for her.

Her mother truely is a horrible person. im not saying this because she is the ex. she yells and screams and smacks her daughter for the smallest thing-she even told her she was going to kill her because she dropped pencil shavings on the ground. her way of loving her daughter is by telling her she is going to take her to disney and theme parks... but she never has. she has told her several times that her dad doesnt love her but she herself never hugs her or kisses her and just hangs out with her. now my husdand is busting himself working 2 jobs to be able to support himself and her ( his money is going towards her rent and cars (yes 2 cars) hair nails, trip to the other side of the usa to see her b/fs ( yes more than 1 ) ) of course he is not giving her the money directly to her but that is what his child support is going towards. it certainly isnt going to

Answer 1

if there is a witness to her mother threatening her, or any evidence of abuse, file for emergency custody to get her out of her mother's house, then go for full custody in court.

she called her mother to come get her because it wasn't all fun and games at daddy's. stand your ground, when she is at your house she will live by your rules, no matter what. she will eventually respect you for it.

good luck to you

Answer 2

She needs to see a therapist, and get some professional help.

Then your husband needs to fight for custody.

Answer 3

Ya'll need to see a therapist asap

Answer 4

Get a really good family law attorney and go for full custody.