Moving in ..........???

Question

if your gf was pregnant would you get a flat with her??.. or just see her once a week ..

same for ladies did you move in with your partner when you had a baby

Answer 1

If you are in a stable committed relationship and you are ready to take it to the next level I think it's a great idea.

If you are considering it out of obligation to the child, I say no.  Relationships tend to fail more easily when they are forced into things.

Either way be an active, loving, participating father.

Answer 2

I would move in.

Answer 3

my boyfriend of 2 months moved in with me. and im now 5 months along and we are doing just fine i guess it depends on the sit.

Answer 4

Well i would say that it is important that you are together at this special time. You need to get involved in your child's growth and life and your partner needs your understanding and support from here on in.

Answer 5

It's not for any of us to say really - it depends on the nature of your relationship with your g/f.

i don't agree in starting a relationship or staying in one 'for the sake of the kids' - i say that as someone coming from parents who should have broken up many years ago before us kids were old enough - but if you feel like your relationship is ready to move to the next level, go for it.

Answer 6

If this is a woman that you think you could marry, then get a flat with her.  I moved in when pregnant and it can me stressful if one person expects one thing and the other wants something else.  Talk to her about what both of you want and expect before jumping in.

Answer 7

My boyfriend (now husband) & I were already living together when I got pregnant. I think if you both over 18 and are in a stable relationship, then yes you should move in together. It's only fair to the baby that he gets to live with his mommy AND daddy as long as you can finacially afford it. If you can't at the moment, then start saving so you can live together as soon as you possibly can.