Moving to Vegas....how faithful are the men there??

Question

I am moving to Vegas with my husband and I'm afraid of all of the temptation down there. Yes, I know if he wanted to cheat on me here (in NY) he would, but he is going to be at the strip a lot playing poker and that environment just scares the h**l out of me. I feel like the chances of him cheating are higher in Vegas.... and yes I do trust him, I'm just scared. Please tell me your situations and what you've seen and any advice for me.... thanks!!!

Answer 1

all I can say is I have lived here my whole life before moving from Boston when i was a kid and I love it here.  There are good people but they are tough to find.  The women here are simply gorgeous...so its up in the air.  I havent found a good man yet.  I'm 33, 100lbs blonde and hot and I am a professional and it hasnt helped.  Lots of scum bags here with a lot of cash.  I say go with him to the poker tables or go to the spa while he plays and keep a tight leash...the woman are hot and viscious!  Just a heads up....even if he's good....the enviroment is nuts...trust me!  This place can be great though..if your marriage is solid.  Move to green valley or summerlin...and nowhere else and you should be golden.  Good Luck...enjoy the most beautiful fall from September to December you have ever experienced...its awesome this time of year.  Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

Las Vegas has a very high divorce rate.  Because of everything that is Vegas.  People cheat and people get hooked on gambling and all sorts of bad news.

I myself was married to someone else when I moved here in 1992.  Our marriage came to a screaming halt about 3 years later.  

Sorry, but that's a common occurrence in Sin City.

Answer 3

Well if he is good at poker he won't be cheating because his mind will be on the game!  

If he is going to cheat he would do it in NY or LV.  So you are going to have to do some actual trusting, and not just say the word.

Answer 4

I would think he would be paying more attention to the game of poker than the "other" one.

Answer 5

After the answer Maxx gave, every women in town will be locking up her man. And it's because of dumb clowns like Maxx, this town is what it is.

Please if your husband was going to cheat, don't you think he would have done so already?

One doesn't need to move out here in order to do so, Vegas is no different then Detroit, Dallas or New York. Why travel half way across the country, and then go "Oooooh" i think i'll cheat !!!!

I work in a Casino and work close with a number of nice looking guys, and have yet to see a single one of them cheat (or even look at another women).

When you job involes tips (yeah your gonna flirt) Hello tips...........

And as far as the famous saying goes "What happens in Vegas" well it's just a catchy phase to lure folks in.

Temptation is everywhere, he doesn't need the strip or Casino to throw him of course. The clerk at your local 7 Eleven, can turn his head anyway you said it yourself. He has yet to do so in N.Y so why do it here.

Answer 6

I've lived all over the country and overseas.. I find Las Vegans to be the least faithful of anyone. 40+ million people a year come here with the thought "What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.." That's a lot of people coming here with "bad" intentions. Lots and lots of very good looking younger people work & live the nightlife. There is a lot of craziness, at all times. Where else can you go to major clubs 7 days a week? And buy alcohol at all hours, any day of the week?

If he works in the casinos, clubs, restaurants, he'll be tempted a lot. When I worked in the clubs, women would randomly give out their phone numbers, room keys, kiss me out of nowhere, grab the goods.. Every night is a huge party. If he's working a "regular" job off the strip, it should be pretty normal.

I know husbands cheating on their wives and the wife is cheating on the husband, but they don't know what each other is up to. It's certainly an interesting place.. Ultimately, it will come down to what kind of man he is.