Moving too slow at 13? wow...?

Question

Alright... so i was at summer camp all summer and i met this girl. Anna, so my summer camp has dances and we got together at every one of them, and then all of a sudden she was avoiding me. I asked her friends what was up, and they said she thought i didn't like her because i hadn't " made out " with her yet after 3 weeks. are you serious? I didnt want to seem like a jerk by even thinking about that i mean we were only going to be seeing eachother for 3 weeks i didnt want her to think i was using her you know? My question is how do you know when a girl wants to move faster?

Answer 1

i would just talk to her and ask her how she feels. u have nothing to lose. its time to come out of ur shell and just talk to her and ask her what she wants. dont go to far but talk to her and maybe u can grow closer.

Answer 2

u should just go out and ask her what she wants to do... but if its 2 fast for u, u dont have 2 do it. but that way u dont have to worry or not if she wants u 2 do anything special with her or not. most ppl rnt like that. im 13 and ive been going out with someone for 3 months and im not hurt that he hasnt made out with me... so yea

Answer 3

Regardless of what someone else wants, move at your own pace.  I think you did the right thing, especially if she began avoiding you.  You guys are on different wavelengths...

I actually think YOU are too mature for HER.  No joke!!  If she really wants  guys that will move faster, believe me she won't have any trouble finding them - and all the misery they bring with them - STDs, unplanned pregnancy, hurt feelings, low self-esteem, etc.

Answer 4

Stay away from those types of girls..they will get you in trouble. She will be the one in 2-3 yrs popping out babies. Stay away from the girl.

Answer 5

some people have s*x the first time they meet.

so i think you making out with her on your first or second date would have been great. but whatever..

if you still like her and you still want to be with her i say you go up to her stare into her eyes and when she tries to talk make out with her.

she wants you to make out with her so you guys feel comfortable with each other..

best make out session is when its unexpected. ;)

Answer 6

Little advice, you are never going to know when why and how a girl wants you to do things. Some girls like it to be slow, they don't want you to move fast. And, others will want you to make out with them the first day you start talking.

It just depends on the girl, what she does, what she likes, and how she talks. Girls are going to be confusing and guys won't understand them. Just like guys are confusing to girls. So, get used to not knowing. lol  

Answer 7

Ask what she wants from the begining and what she's looking for.

Answer 8

if she hints to you she wants something more, or if she seems all over you. or soemtimes you cant ever tell and you just have to guess. sorry, were complicated.