Mu husbands female cousin kissed me!!! Help!!!?

Question

My husband and I have been separated for a while but me and his first cousin have remained friends. We hang out A LOT and talk A Lot, we were talking about 3-ways and things that we have done in our life's. I told her that I had been with a couple of women back in my teens and had s couple 3-ways. Maybe a little while after this we went out to eat and had a pitcher of margarita's (nothing new). I left something at her house so she took me back while everyone stayed at the restaurant since we were around the corner. When we got there she just went jumped on me and started kissing me and rubbing all on me. I told her I'm good and she quit. Now every time I'm around her she wants to get my goodies, she's my best friend and my cousin and this is crazy. How do I just tell her no without messing our friendship up?

Answer 1

She messed the friendship up, not you.

Answer 2

"I kissed a girl and I liked it, the taste of her cherry chap stick"  

Oh sorry, I got distracted:)

Answer 3

She`s your husband`s cousin, not yours! If it feels right, go 4 it, sounds like you want to!

Answer 4

Hello, is this the Maury Povich website?

Go see "Joseph and the Amazing Technicolour Dreamcoat."

Then, anytime you find yourself in a tempting yet questionable situation, run away as fast and as far as you can, just like Joseph did.

Bad company corrupts good morals.  Find a new friendship, if she won't behave appropriately around you.

Answer 5

Well you certainly don't advertise you chomped cooch before then pound tequila with someone you don't expect to hook up with.

Sorry but sounds like you were a bit of a tease there, missy!   Oh I "left something at her house"  PLEASE, even a woman like me who has never gone south on a woman knows you were asking for it!  

Answer 6

it's already messed up.  Leave her alone....File for your divorce and figure out who you are

Answer 7

just tell her you don't roll that way anymore, and in all honesty, you did kinda give her the right to do so. I mean, you did tell her directly you're bi-sexual by sleeping with girls before, and you did tell her you're S****y by telling her you did 3ways.

So, it's kinda a mess you made on your own.

Answer 8

Oh "Honesty Rules" I started singing the same song and about peed my pants when I saw your comment.

Go for it! Your practically single!

Answer 9

  Love isn't wrong .... It time to come home ... can't ...make this any faster ........everytime we're together .....it never be the same .....if you're not here ......how can you stay away ......    away so long ....  ....why can't we stay together ........Give me a reason .......give me a reason ... cause .. I  ......I .....don't want to say ..... I don't want to find another  way ... .to  make  it through the day without you ....I  .....   ... I.... I  can't resist ..... try  to find exactly what I miss .... its just another day without you ........its just another day ......   ....  make it  the same ...... try to realize ...... to make you stay forever ........ why do I have to tell you ....... try to hold  on .. to some .......to someone ..... give us a chance  to make it ...to make it .... Im not that strong ...I'm not that strong ..........  give us a chance to make it ...to make it ..... wanna hold on forever .... Im not that strong ...  

Answer 10

Just tell her no more. There is nothing you can do if she can't accept this.  

Answer 11

it is not hard just say you don't think it is right that you and her "hook up " because her being your bf and your cuz and related to your ex!

Answer 12

your just going to have to tell her, she is not going to like it any way you tell her.

Answer 13

dive right into that muff, get ur knees dirty baby

Answer 14

"Come on. You do it. Everybody does it."

     Mel Brooks (History of the World, Part One)

Tell her it might be fun, but you have decided it's a bad idea under the circumstances and she should find herself a nice girl and compare tattoos.  

Answer 15

If you two are TRULY friends, you need to talk to her honestly and tell her you're just not interested in her romantically, but you want her friendship.  It she cares about you and respects you, things will return to normal.  If she can't deal with it, she'll remove herself from your life.  And in the short-run you may think you've lost a friend, but in the long run you'll have saved yourself a lot of aggravation.  

Answer 16

Tell her that you value her as friend and family member,but the L*****n experimentation  is in the past,and you want to keep it in the past.A word of advice keep somethings to yourself,you NEVER tell everything you have done in your life,even to a best friend.