Mums would u feel ok with a guy working at ur childs preschool?

Question

I would love to work at a pre school, i love kids very much and have always had a connection with them because i understand them, I feel their r the cuties things on earth and get really soft and childish around kids, the thing is i'm a guy who looks like a convict, i have a very dark stubble, v shaped hairline, and a big ugly head and i'm currently a pro Mixed martial arts fighter with hopes of making it in the UFC, however im not the kind of guy thats angry or has issues i just like fighting, wud u feel ok with me around ur kids

Answer 1

As long as you treat them with proper care then i dont mind. But i wouldnt hire you if you didnt even dress nicely.

Answer 2

hard to say without meeting you.  I had a male student teacher who was GREAT with the kids. He was at much at ease dressing the baby dolls as he was playing with trucks,

Answer 3

I'd love to have someone like you around my kids in their school. I tend to notice it's the giants that are the gentlest and most protective of children.

(not saying you little skinny men aren't! lol, but larger guys tend to be big ole teddy bears)

Answer 4

There is a guy working in my 4yr olds nursery class, I think it is BRILLIANT!! It is time for schools/creche's/nurserys and the like to stop being a female dominated environment. Men bring such different and brilliant things to these settings. I think it is so important to have both sexes influencing young children, it makes for more balanced individuals.

Answer 5

I work at a center, and we were going to hire a guy to work with the older chidren.  We are a christian center, and the guy works at the church.  He ended up being busy, so he never hired on.  Just know that you would have parents question you being there.  There are some who would not feel comfortable.  I have no problem with it.  Many centers do not let men change diapers.  It is sad that there is a double standard, btu there is.  You will likely have to show some references that show your good character.  And previous experience with children will help you, whether baby-sitting or doing a summer camp. That might also be something that you could try, because a lot of men are camp counselors and this would be great on a resume.  I would just make sure that you are cleanly shaven when you interview.  I do not think you being bald is a problem.  Good luck to you.

Answer 6

Don't worry about what the parents think! No one should judge you by how you look! If they do, just find a way to show them that you are fit for this job. Maybe you can interact with one of the children (preferably one who likes your company) in presence of a parent to show that the kids accept you and that you don't do anything to make them dislike you. All you have to do is bond with the kids. Hope I've helped!!!

Answer 7

Yes, because I would know that the school wouldn't have hired you without knowing that you were okay with kids.

Answer 8

Of course! I think there really should be more males working in childcare. It is nice for children to have positive role models that are both male and female. There seems to be shortage of male teachers in the lower end of UK primary schools and most would welcome you. Go for it!!!!

Answer 9

No cause you don't judge a book by its cover. Just as long as you don't hurt them in anyway and treat them as they were your own.

Answer 10

I have worked with little children for 20+ years and having a guy in their presence is rare but WONDERFUL. You can't judge a book by it's cover. You would be a great assest in any program, especially for those who are lacking a father. Go for it!

Answer 11

I am not a mother, but I am a teacher who works with a male in early childhood.  The kids love him and he is an awesome person.  I think it would depend on how you communicate with families and be very open to them getting to know you and what your passions for working with children are.  I think it's wonderful for men to work with young children- especially for the children!

Answer 12

It is fantastic to have postive male role models in a pre school. The children relate really well and you will find the mums love you!! You wil have to have CRB check so do not worry about trust issues. Ps. I love your description of your self nand i would hire you to work in one of my pre schools>> Go for it and enjoy.

Answer 13

Definately work toward it...though I would suggest to don't get too "childish" around the children.  Having a positive male role model is such a necessary thing anymore.  Act professional but go for it!

Answer 14

If I were to interview you, your answers to the standard questions would count more than how you look. that being said, if you really look like a convict or a tough guy I would probably spend alot of time explaining you to the parents. If I had my choice between you and another guy who answered the interview questions as well as you did and they gave off a gentler persona, i may hire the other person . They say that people take 6 seconds to form a first impressions. If I were to take a parent on a tour and they had a concern about how you look, they may put their child in another program. if you really want to work with little children, perhaps soften your image. I have hired many men in my schools, so gender is not the issue.