Muslim girls dont you get these feeling too ?

Question

ok im muslim and im 13 and you know how in the Quran its like girls can't date in your teenage years and stuff . Well i don't "date" anyone but i still think some guys are hot and some guys are ugly and i rate them with my friends and stuff but i don't hug any guys that aren't in my family .

but i still have this like this urge to like actually have a boyfriend even though i know im not going to do it. So what my real question is doesn't every teenager ( specifically muslim ones) get these feelings too?

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Answer 1

I'm not Muslim, but I had many Muslim friends as a teen and I assure you it's perfectly normal. Teenagers go through many changes, and boys and girls suddenly find themselves attracted to one another. It's a natural thing - but you're right, you don't need to act on it. It's okay to think boys are cute or ugly though. Do what you're comfortable with.  

Answer 2

Im Muslim and i do. but so wat its natural; but if ur parents r strict i dont think u shud tell them. my parents arent 2 strict

Answer 3

Yeah, totally normal.

I'm a muslim girl.

And in all honesty, you're human before you're muslim, right?

So don't sweat it.

Oh, Mubarak 3laikom il shahar :]

Answer 4

i am not muslim.

i grew up strict catholic.  i had those same feelings.

its okay to have those feelings because its natural and you cant fight the feelings away.  

you can however pray them away.   you can ask God/Allah to take away the desire to act on the lust.  

Answer 5

Well I grew up in a Muslim country, Turkey. Girls in Turkey weren't like you. They were dating boys and living like any other teenager. I remember you could see many young couples kissing in the streets. So I guess you are very very Muslim that you don't date guys. I respect your belief though.