Muslims: I live with my girlfriend. Is that so wrong?

Question

Is it haram to live with my girlfriend. I know it is but like is it really THAT bad? you can't follow everything in quran right?

Answer 1

As a Christian, God would consider this act sinful.

In 2 Corinthians 6:14

14Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

This is a sin because you are not glorifying God, but are being pushed away through lust.

Believe in Jesus Christ and you shall be saved. Live for Him alone. He wants you. He promises He will come back. :D How awesome..!

Answer 2

Some of the answers here are really mean and rude.Some people are a little backward especially in this section.

From my personal point of view I don't find anything wrong with having and living with your girlfriend.

As for s*x, I think if you love her and you are not using her then I think its fine also if you plan to marry her later at some point of your life.

I don't think love has any boundaries and you shouldn't dump her just because she is a non-muslim.

From a religious point of view yes you are a bad muslim I think you can be forgiven if you change.

Answer 3

You should consider tobah, and God forgive.

But you say she's atheist, and a Muslim you're permitted to marry a Christian or Jew only. Did you think about that?

Answer 4

Yes it is one of the big sins. U may not be able to follow everything tht holy book says coz no one does but at least dont commit major sins like this. U have to ask for heartfelt forgiveness from god and promise not to repeat it whatsoever..Forgiving is God s nature. Plz dont indulge urself in such things anymore.

Answer 5

why are u asking and u already kno the answer

Answer 6

You write your Avator 'people are weird''

I see you are the biggest weirdo and U ask weirdest questions.

u r comittring major sins being a Muslim and asking if it is a sin.

In which world r u living?

Answer 7

Allah will punished you akra

your doing zina bil riza is haram and very sin full  your mother will punished for ur sin because she unable to give u good educations about Islam for ur mother sake

please stop this sin

and pray for your forgiveness we  will pray for your forgiveness    

Answer 8

yah agree with first one who answer this question

stop doing this and live sepratley if you cant then ask her to  convert her religion and marry her soon

its haram to live with a non muslim girl and having s*x

Allah forgive you when you stop all this and say to Allah for frogivness and show you the right path  

Answer 9

would you like someone to sleep with your sister with no marriage promise and then just leave her yukk

Answer 10

Dear,

Peace upon you.

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

l think you must be joking asking that question in the category Ramadan. Nobody in Islam to stay or live together with none Muhrim or unmarried. Of Course it is HARAM.

Thank you.

Wabillahhitaufiq Walhidayah Wassalamu'alaikum Warahmatullahhi Wabarakatuh.

Answer 11

of course...

and u kno s*x b4 marriage is haram...

datz sorta big doe...idk..

Answer 12

yes it is Haram for Muslims, and doing so makes someone really a bad Muslim.

btw, white = non Muslim??

Answer 13

Assalaamu alaikum it is better to stop what you are doing during the month of Ramadhan and take your time to find out why you are doing what you are doing. Turn to Allah and ask him to give you strength to change you situation and ask Allah to give you a good Muslimah who will take care of all your needs.

Yes Allah forgives all sins except SHIRK.

If this woman really cared for you she would respect your religion. Also she is probably using you for s*x because some muslim men are very soft in the heart and can be easily manipulated. I believe you are a good man and that you really need help to change.

Answer 14

don't mix enjoyment and religion together. if u want to enjoy then just enjoy and don't think any thing about religion.

but the fact is that having s*x with a woman who is not ur wife is bad in every religion and society. no religion in this earth says its a good thing.

so conclusion is if u want to bring religion in to ur mattes then follow it properly and if not then simply enjoy  

Answer 15

yes it's realy BAD , u r commiting a major sin( zina)

Answer 16

Yes, it's a "big deal" - it's zina in Islam. Also, it is haram to marry an athiest. Think about it: how could you spend your life and raise your children with someone who denies the existence of God?

And actually, you can follow everything in the Qu'ran. Many Muslims do.

It sounds to me as though you're not really informed about Islam. Why don't you visit your local masjid? I'm sure there are lots of people there who would be helpful in informing you about Islam.

As for forgiveness, you can only be forgiven if you're sorry - and even then, it's up to Allah (SWT), not us. Try to straighten out your life, take small steps, pray for guidance and forgiveness, and Allah (SWT) will guide your if your hear and intention are pure.

Peace be upon you. I hope you find your answers.

Answer 17

What is not wrong? It is Haram.

I'm sure that you already know your answer, but you want to hear it from someone other than your conscience your inner sense of what is right or wrong brother.

You are having premarital s*x... with an atheist, as a Muslim you're permitted to marry a Muslim, Christian, or Jew. Do you think that Allah is proud of you for sharing your love and purity with someone who does not even believe in his existence?

s*x before Marriage is a big no no in Islam.

Islam is a serious religion, you can't just pick and choose what you want to follow in The Qur'an. Treat every word of God seriously. You have committed a major sin my brother.

Show to Allah that you are worthy and ask for forgiveness and promise to not to have s*x till your marriage.

Answer 18

Yes it is a major sin and Allah promises His forgiveness to those who repent sincerely.

Answer 19

are you stupid? its a major sin. its WORSE than "THAT BAD" why do you even ask without a care for your own religion? yes you cant follow everything in the Quran but thats one of the most important rule which you HAVE to follow.

dont care? dont ask.

Answer 20

Yes it is Haram, But if you want to engage in such practice, make her muslim and marry with her.  So, then there will be not a question of Haram.

Have u read Quran with Meaning? Quran is Main Instruction for this world and after we have to follow Hadith.

Answer 21

you know well you will never marry this girl and you are only using her for s*x.  You also know very well it is a huge sin.  There is forgiveness of course as there is forgiveness for every sin except shirk, however you have to be serious about it.  You cannot ask Allah swt to forgive you and yet you still keep doing the same sin.  

Answer 22

why you are not marrying her?

at least a conditional marriage.