Muslims only please I need help!!!!?

Question

I'm really 11 years old but I like this guy who turned 15 in April. I just get really frustrated because I want him to notice me and well I don't know.I don't even know if it's just a crush or maybe more. I'm probably gonna see him on Sep. 6th. What do I do? My friends think he likes me because we have this thing where he says I suck at football (which I don't) and so he was on my back saying "lets play football" and my friend also says that he can't stop looking or glancing or staring or whatever . . . which I don't believe.

Anyway, long story short, I don't know what to do. Help!!!!

P.S - you guys probably think I'm just a kid and i shouldn't worry or this is ridiculous well its not . . . i cant stop thinking about him!!!!

P.S.S. - Sorry if this is the wrong category!

Answer 1

how do u want me to help u out on this from an islamic point of view?

U know ur not suppose to mess around with guys....if u didn't then well now u do.

But u r too young to be getting in a relationship and boys, religion aside

Answer 2

sister, it is normal to think like that in your age, but you mustn't take your feelings that serious. you are still very young, maybe you feel that you r in crush, but this is temporarily and you have to be careful from doing anything haram. don't build on your daydreams, because they are daydreams even if you think the opposite. trust me!

Answer 3

Hey, hope ur great.

Listen, act precious! And then, older kids will almost always break your heart. Plus, it's okay to have feelings about guys, ur almost a teenage girl, but the question is, what are you going to do about them?

My advice is to do nothing; enjoy your school with your girlfriends, pray and be nice to your parents. Boys are always bad news; give urself a chance to grow up carefree; you'll then be able to see more clearly and act maturely.

When i was ur age, i had a crush on someone who was also fifteen and Thank God i did nothing about it (except of course giggle about it with my girlfriends), and now i'm twice ur age, and i'm thinking 'What a loser he was!'

Sincerely, may you always be safe and Ramadan Kareem Insha Allah.  

Answer 4

Well if you want an Islamic point of reference... It is not good for a girl to pursue a boy. Have your father talk to this man and see he has a marriage mindset. ( at 11.. it ain't going to happen)

secular pint of view- this boy is too old for you. If you date him and get caught you could put him in a BAD situation even if you don't end up having s*x. He will get flack for robbing the cradle.

Answer 5

talk to your mom.  moms have a way of knowing what their daughters should do.  i am 43 and still ask my mom for advice on things like this.