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I was dating a guy for a year he lives abroad and he left without telling me to go back home and work, i cannot get hold of him by phone as it is switched off and he has left me with no email or adress, i only have his sisters phone number as she is still in england i sent her 2 txts asking if she could ask her brother to call me this was around a 3 weeks ago and i still havent heard anything. me and her brother never left things on bad terms so i dont understand why he hasnt contacted me; i have so much i still need to say to him. do you think i should phone his sister and ask her to ask him to contact me again or what?i dont want to upset her as i am not her problem and she is busy with her own life but i need answers...what does everyone think?i was thinking of calling her and asking her if i could txt her what i need to say to her brother and then maybe she can read it out to him when he contacts her lol i know it sounds stupid but then at least i will get what i need to say off my chest lol at the same time he is very close to his sister what if she tells me to get lost or has a go at me on the phone what shall i do then? please help i need it lol

Answer 1

Is that left without telling you, for you to go back home and work, or for him to go home and work? Any way, if he really loved you, he would have told you he was going, so I'd find someone else if I were you. I'm available, just so you know... (raise eyebrows mysteriously, twice)

10 points please :)

Answer 2

You could try that.

But it looks as if he just wants to move on.

You may have to accept that.

Answer 3

Girl, you need to move on i know there are things that you want to say to him but if you carry on the way you are you will just end up looking needy and desperate. i suggest you write a letter to get things off your chest, even if you can't send it trust me it helps, in fact it would probably be better if you diidn't send it but just throw it away, because he obviously isn't worth it and i think you could find someone better

Answer 4

im not trying to be rude but its is pretty obvious he doesnt want to hear from you, otherwise he would have told he was going, maybe it wasnt working for him and he was too much of a coward to tell you straigt. if you dont hear from him you pretty much have to accept it and try not to waste too much time being upset over him, i know its hard but maybe for the best

Answer 5

Ring the sister and get his number or email !

But why didn't he leave you with his number?

Answer 6

I don't suggest you call and tell his sister all the things that you want to tell him.  But if this is out of charter for him them maybe just maybe something might of happen to him.  So call the sister and ask if he's been in some sort of accident.  Once you know this, the rest should be black and white.  Good luck.

Answer 7

ok so if you want to get in touch with him its obvious that you need to get to his sister. now because of how far away she is she may have not gotten your txts the best thing to do is to call her and either ask for her to ask him to call you or see if she has a number or email address for him that you can get to him at. and if not then dont sweat her. hun if he really cared he would have got in touch with you or told you  that he was leaving. maybe he isnt satisfied with things right now and just want to be off by himself. you never really know with these things. but i will say dont hold yourself out there on a lim for that long if he cant do anything to make some kind of contact with you and he just up and left then maybe you need to let him go. i leave you with this think about if you 2 were married for a few years and again he just up and left how would you feel then because whos to say if he comes bake that he wont do it again.