I keep finding notes in various notebooks, not by snooping just seriously on accident, written by my ten year-old daughter about how she hates me and she loves her dad more. (her dad left me when I was preggers and re-entered her life when she was about 4, she sees him about 5 times per year) I'm sure this might be normal, although I never even felt this about my mother at this age, but my parents are still married. I don't know how to approach this. I certainly don't want to turn myself into a victim if she needs help. I also don't want to make a big deal if it is normal development. For now I just throw them away and say nothing, but it is breaking my heart, what should I do???
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