My 11 year old daughter does drugs.. adn like she does them in front of me she also does cigs..?

Question

mostly weed.. yeah,,, umm i need major help i can't say noo,,, cause it makes her feel happy,, adn she is never happy w/ out her drugs!!

Answer 1

i will tell you this,your a very careless mother,you can,t have your eleven year old daughter doing drugs you should be a shame,and its your fault.why?because children live what they learn.so what exactly are you teaching your daughter?.come on ,take your place as a mother.your daughter needs professional help you need to take her to the rehab.and as for you you need to learn how to be a mother.

Answer 2

well.. first off.. realize that you are the parent and not her.  it does not help if you are doing drugs because it is showing her that it is okay.  if she is smoking pot at 11 years old, it is only going to get worse... she will start experiencing harder drugs becasue pot will become old news.  i would guarantee you that she is also drinking or has drank recently or in the past.  next will come someone elses prescription meds, then maybe cocaine, other dangerous drugs and then a combination of all of the above.  i am a cop and see this all too often.  you have the right as a parent to search her room when ever you want.  you can call your local law enforcement and let them know that she is "out of control" and have them come talk to her.  you can even allow them to search her room.  i would allow them to do it in front of her just to make her watch her personal things get gone thru by total strangers.  she could end up on juvenile probation and this might be a good idea.  if you continue to allow her to use drugs and smoke pot, you could be turned in to cps and i dont think you need that.  that is contributing to a minor and it is not taken lightly by the courts or anyone else.  sounds like you need to start parenting instead of trying to be a friend.  the sooner you take the first step... the better off she will be.  she may hate you for a while but she will eventually appreciate what you had to do.  if you dont not take care of it now... it could ultimately cause her to become for curious about other drugs which could easily lead to an over dose and death.  i can only hope you take my advise and do what is right.  hope this helps.  good luck.

Answer 3

Well,

Your her mom, So why don't you take them away from her, even though it makes her happy! Im sure she can find something else to make her happy.

Answer 4

Troll =) because...

-you can't spell

-this question is worded rediculously

-that's bad parenting

-it's a horrible excuse to NOT get your daughter off drugs

EDIT: Well if you have autism I don't know, but friend, it's obvious that a parent doesn't try to help his/her daughter just because drugs "make her happy"!!! You know it doesn't really make her happy but it's destroying her body and her self esteem. So be a parent and take responsiblity by showing her you love her and that you won't let her hurt herself like that! =)

Answer 5

You should learn how to spell, and if your going to lie, at least make it somewhat believable.

Answer 6

this sounds like c**p to me. Your her mother/father you can make her stop

Answer 7

Considering the fact that marijuana is not a drug, you should let her continue to use it. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it. The only reason it's in the "drug" category is because it's illegal, if it were legal, it wouldn't be labeled as a "drug". It is NOT a drug, if she likes it, let her continue on with it. Cigarettes on the other hand, those aren't the greatest. I used to be a chain smoker, but I managed to quit. Cigarettes is just a gross habit. Pot smell doesn't stick around like cigs do.

Answer 8

Aren't you the same troll who's 12 year old daughter is pregnant?

Yeah, I dont think so.

Nice try =)

Answer 9

Happy or not...she needs to get off the drugs and cigarettes. Tough c**p if she is "happy" without them...

Next time she lights up in front of you smack it RIGHT outta her mouth and tell her next time she even THINKS about lighting anything up you are calling the cops on her!

Answer 10

its only weed... and smokes meh.. Make sure it doesnt escalate to crack because crack is wack

Answer 11

Get to therapy fast!  She is screaming for you to stop her if she does them in front of you.  I am sure there are free parenting classes around.  Kids want boundaries so bad.  I wish MY parents had stood up and said "no way, my kid deserves better than this!"

Answer 12

this really can't be a parent asking this question!!!!!!!!!!!!! but if it is REHAB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND PARENTING CLASSES!!!!!!!!!

Answer 13

I doubt it.

Answer 14

if you dont do something now you are ruining her life for her.

     trust me... ive been there...

Answer 15

LOL!!! Seriously, i laugh at your problems. One, you make them up, Two, you dont know how to spell(

its called first grade moron), three, its funny, and four, your not even good at lying on the freaking internet.

Anyway, slap that ***** till she pukes up all the weed she smokes.

Answer 16

your obviously not mother of the year but luckely i am get her off drugs and get a ***** back b0ne i dont give as **** if it makes her happy

Answer 17

You need to get her to rehab.

Not unless you want her to sell her body when she's sixteen. Or if you want her to die at a young age.

Answer 18

TROLL TROLL TROLL

I just read some of your other questions. Turns out you also have a 12 year old who has lots of s*x and your kids are trying to have s*x with stuffed animals..have you called Jerry Springer yet??

Answer 19

First of all.

I am 12 years old. I think your a horrible parent right now, because your still freakan letting her USE DRUGS!

Put her in freken rehab, before she has an overdose.

jeez. i could parent better than you,.

Answer 20

been there.

put her in rehab.

before she's sixteen and selling her body for drugs.

harsh but its the truth.

Answer 21

take awayher drugs

put her in rehab

or go on Maury-I'm not being funny, I'm serious.