My 11yr old has been looking forward to go to a sleepover for weeks, its tonite,,, BUT?

Question

her friends slumber party is tonight,,, in 40 minutes it starts,,, but my daughter has been sneezing all day and is tired, i gave her medicine for her nose but it made her tired, she napped and woke up shaky,

this is her 1st sleepover and she was really looking forward to going

should i still let her go?,

shes a little tired

blocked nose

scratchy throat

no temperature!

Answer 1

Does she still feel up to it? Depends on her age. Is she young enough that her friends parents will be upset she might get everyone else sick?

Answer 2

let her go...other wise she will feel left out...I understand you thinking of her health so tell the parent in charge the your daughter is feeling a little under the weather..and tell your girl to call if she really doesn't feel good and tell her to not to over eat the junk food so not to upset her tummy....

Answer 3

I would probably say no just because she doesnt feeel so well and may get others sick. Or let her go and chance the fact she may feel real yucky so she may call you to come get her. If you do let her go just call the mom throwin the sleepover.

Answer 4

she probably is getting a the common cold. you should ring her friends mum and say that your daughter had a runny nose and a sore throat but you have given her medicine and she would still like to come would it be ok.  if the mum says yes then it would be up to your daughter if she wants to go .  If the friends mum says know then your daughter will have deal with the dissapointment but maybe you could have the other friend sleep over at your place another day.

it is hard for children to want to do something when are 11  and not feeling well.

Answer 5

First of all talk to the mom throwing the party.  Some parents get ticked out of their minds if you send a sick kid to their house.  With your daughter's symptoms, she seems ok...just a bit of the sniffles.  So, as long as she is still welcome to come, and still wants to go, let her go.  She'll be fine.

Answer 6

I would leave it up to your child, especially since it is the first sleep over, not sure how they would react.  Your child will feel more in control and happy with whatever decision is made.

Answer 7

Shes still young,

let her go out for a sleepover a day or two.

If she doesnt feel well, just tell her to call you and get her.

Or if you could, tell the friend parent

to look after her , and help her if she needs anything.

Answer 8

if she feels up to it then let her go. but if shes really sick dont risk getting any other girls sick.

if she is too sick to go but wants to so badly, when she gets better throw a slumber party at your house.

Answer 9

ask her if she is up to it, and if she is keen, phone her friend's mother and explain. If she has no problem to her coming, then let your daughter go, and I wish she enjoys her 1st sleepover.

Answer 10

let her go and jsut let the parent know that if she runs a temperature or something she should call you so you can go pick her up

Answer 11

yeah id still let her go but let the other girls parents know whats up.  that way if things get worse they can give you a call.  Sounds like she may just have a touch of a cold, nothing too major, but make sure the other girls parents have ur number so they can call in case..

Answer 12

Her first slumber party should always be a memorable one, but the memory should not be of feeling ill, give the party a miss, there will always be more in the future, and I am sure your daughter and her friends will understand :o)

Answer 13

i think you should let her go.. as long as she has no temp nor she is puking or have thee poops..... she should go if she wantes to... but this is her 1st sleepover..?? mine was what when i was like 6.. = | im 12 now

Answer 14

Uhh ohh.

What I would do is give her meds and make sure she wont hug the kids, or anything. I would tell them to give her fluids and such. But maybe I wouldn't let her go. But you could try.

Answer 15

if she has fever then no