My 12 year old daughter has s*x at this age what should i do??

Question

i am trying my harest she threatnes to kill me when i talk to her about safe s*x!! casue she lvoes it soo much.. adn she is pregnant.. i can never see her cause like i workl8 hours!

Answer 1

Get her lead underwear that only you have the key to, and then smack that kid.

Are you from Butte Montana btw?

Answer 2

give her pills. and condoms.

seriously. Safty is beter than pregnent.

Answer 3

first and for most, get her birthcontrol.  Talking doesnt always help, and it least she will be protected from getting pregnant.  make sure she knows the risks of STD's and how its important to wear a condom so you dont get a disease that is non treatable or non cureable.  lastly, give her a good talking about loving someone before giving them s*x. if she gives it too easy she may never find true love.

Answer 4

Go on maury my summer is getting boring.She cant kill u u better make her kno who's boss.R u afraid to beat her little hormone enraged ***.Oh and call the police so that the guy can go to jail

Answer 5

defintily talk to her about it and then schedule an appointment with the gyno so she can talk to her about it also. Plus have her checked for STD's and possibly placed on birth control so she doesn't end up a young mother. At this point, there isn't any chance of turning back so she is better off getting on BC.

Answer 6

Tell her what the possible outcomes of s*x can be...also call her school and see if you can enroll her in the baby class(some schools have this,its where they give the girls a realistic baby doll that cries and everything and they HAVE to take care of it just like a baby,and the teachers can tell if it has been neglected) I'm sure after she does that class she will have second thoughts on having s*x....and there are classes that she can go to to meet people that have fatal STD's and recoverers of STD's and whatnot so she can hear their stories and such...I do believe Health Clinics provide these classes to sexually active teens and preteens.

Answer 7

don't let her out of the house!!!!!

Answer 8

Tell her to stop.  Thank you and good day.

Answer 9

Take her to counseling. If that doesn't work send her to Boot Camp.  YOU ARE THE PARENT!!!  Act like it!!!  She is 12 and doesn't run the household.  Stop being her friend and be her parent.  How did she even get that out of controll?????

Answer 10

are you saying your twelve year old daughter i has s*x and she is pregnant?and you call yourself a mother?this is ashame,it dosen,t matter if you work for how much hours but you should find time for your children.your children is your responsibility.and i bet you can,t say anything to her,you need to have a mother and daughter talk with her or if that doesn,t work get her some professional help.no matter what parents  must always act responsible over thier children because they go out and do things and sometimes parents wonder why but its thier fault.this is total carelessness.you should pay more attention on your little girl.

Answer 11

she lives in your house and you pay the bills, you are her parent she is not yours. you cant continue to let your job keep you away from your child--this maybe why she is in this position.  if you are at work all the time who is there to help her, talk to her, comfort her, and just be a parent.  i would suggest you contact maury and let him put yall in counseling and let her go to one of those camps with the sargent so that she can better understand what she is doing to herself, you and the innocent child she is about to bring into the world. she is acting out and it is going to take someone on the outside with a stern hand to make her wake up and smell the coffee.

Answer 12

I agree-you need to talk to her about pregnancy, STD's, how boys will say they love you just to get into your pants, etc.  Tell her she's got PLENTY of time to be having s*x when she gets older, that she needs to enjoy her childhood without the pressures of s*x.

You also need to take her to Planned Parenthood or your doc or something and get her on birth control pills.

Answer 13

Talk to her!

Tell her about all the consequences of having s*x at a young age (STDs, pregnancies, etc)

Answer 14

Was she having s*x with her 16 year old brother who likes to have s*x with stuffed animals?  

Trolling the internet, 'ay?  As Mr. B. Bunny would say, "What a maroon."

Answer 15

talk to her..thats totally unacceptable to be having s*x at an age like 12...tell her if she keeps it up her odds of having STDs are great and abstinence is the best road to chose....

and don't be afraid of ur daughter if you are...

dude shes 12?! lol.

Answer 16

*Sigh*

How the h**l did you mess up your kid that bad! Ugh sorry BUT AT 12!!!! WTF THATS SOOO ugh crazyyy! Take her to counseling

Answer 17

I would confront her directly about the fact you know she is having s*x.  You need to be open and honest with her.  At the age of 12 she may not realize the risks involved because she could have been pressured to have s*x.  

You should make an appointment to take her to a gynocologist and be tested for STD's.  While you are there, you might ask the doc if there are any women who are suffering from STD's or that had early-in life pregnancies that might want to share their experiences with your daughter.  She might just need a little shock value from other people and be able to see rather than another lecture from mom.  

She needs definate restrictions and boundaries set as to whom she can see and when and where.  Just because she is having s*x at a young age, does not make mom a "**** up" as so many people have said.  Good luck with that!

Answer 18

maybe put her into a phyco ward... she wants so kill you and shes pregnant? does that not sound wrong?

Answer 19

I'm sorry to hear about what you’re going through but if she doesn't listen what else can you do? Back where I'm from children would be punished and adults are allowed to discipline there child when things get out of hand, not in an abusive way (just so the child know that they did wrong and should be corrected).

Is there a boot camp you can send her to?

Answer 20

tell her consequences!!! you could save her life!!!

Answer 21

Put her on the pill ASAP!

Please for all our sake....make her use birth control!

Answer 22

go on maury

Answer 23

why dont u threaten to kill her instead! Ur her mom, ur the parent,,why the h**l r u afraid of ur own kid?????????? grow some ovaries and put her in her place....take some time off work if u need to,,,,people make sacrifices,,,so can u! stupid *** kids need parents not best friends

Answer 24

This might sound like i'm not being serious but every teen that has this problem of addiction to s*x and have been on Maury has changed so I advice for you to go on Maury.

Answer 25

What's done is done. And the worst possible thing you can do is make her feel bad about it. Talk to her and tell her that she could've waited. Educate her about the consequences and risks, and most importantly get her some protection..becasue if she did it once, she'll do it again.

Answer 26

be a better parent, you r****d.

Answer 27

Educate her on the dangers of unsafe s*x.  Don't let her get into situations where she can have s*x.  She is only 12 you need to be around her more, way too young to be out having s*x.

Answer 28

Is this the same kid who is trying to have s*x with a stuffed animal? Silly troll.