My 12 year old is is pregnet what should i do?

Question

she said she is keepin the baby and there is nothin i can do with it i don't no wat to do or wat to say to her can anybody help me?

Answer 1

kick yourself in the head for allowing her to be near a boy for this to happen and not teaching her the right stuff.

plus, joking around about this stuff is not cool.

and don't try to say it's real because adults know how to spell simple words such as what, nothing, pregnant, keeping, know.... those are pretty simple words and you spelled them all wrong.

Answer 2

Say that you'll help her.

After all, there's nothing you can do now.

I hope you gave her the talk before this incident.

Answer 3

i dont believe this at all

your spelling is horrible and not believeable for a mother...

Answer 4

I think just let her keep the baby. By the way, the spelling of pregnant is like this not pregnet.

Answer 5

This is unrealistic.  

Yep so I'll just laugh at you.

Answer 6

A pregnant 12 year old is almost child abuse -- where in heck were you while she was s******g around?  

Oh-ho!?!  The little brat thinks there is nothing you can do about it?  How about this:  You refuse to support her child, and turn her over to foster care.   THAT'S something you can do about it.  It sounds like it might be in her best interests, anyway.

At 12, she needs to see a doctor to make sure that she is healthy enough to have a child without doing damage to herself.  If she isn't, then she will need an abortion.  Otherwise, that baby is getting put up for adoption. End of story.  She is too young, and you are unwilling.  What else is there?

She needs counseling (for SO many things, including having s*x at the age of 12!) to discuss her options.  Right now, all her stupid friends are saying, "Oooh!  A baby!!  You have to keep it!"  IF the father is still around, he's probably thinking he's quite the stud and doesn't want her to abort it.  If he's over 15, slap his azz in juvie for child molestation, too.

Answer 7

let her keep the baby. what ever she wants to do u need to help her with. support her. this is gonna be a big change in her life and she needs u. so it wasnt the smartest thing shes done but u need to help her. no matter what, cuz u will always love her no matter what, thats what parents do.

Answer 8

You don't sound like you are old enough to have a twelve year old but if you do:  

Tell her that having s*x so young was wrong and explain why.  Explain about birth control and tell her not to have s*x again untill she is older.  Say you are dissapointed that she is pregnant but the mistake has been made and you are proud of her for accepting her responsibility.  Help her to raise her baby and try to keep her in school.

Answer 9

if you're a mom and you spell like that then uh........good luck lol..

Answer 10

Um you sure you're a mom?

Because you're spelling is quite off...

Just raise her baby like its you're own, iF you're telling the truth...

xox- Julie

Answer 11

im sorry to hear that. i have a 16 yr old, an i could not imagine. that happen to me. i was 12 when i had my daughter. when my mom found out i was 5 1/2 months. she took me to the place(u no where, an it was to late.) the only thing i can remember is my mom cryin. after that i was the happiest pregnant teenager in the world. she was there for me when i need her the whole thing. so thats the advice, just be there for her no matter wat thats wat she needs...she might dont see it now but she will later on.... u might not even see it now, but u will appreciate u did it later..my daughter is my mom favorite gurl besides me..lol...just alittle humor for u...

good luck

Answer 12

Umm...your the parent of course you have a say in what she does with her body. If it were me I would make her get an abortion, it sounds harsh,  but it would be the best for everyone involved.

Answer 13

its pregnant hun

Answer 14

Wow, I am sure that having your twelve year old come to you with a pregnancy is pretty stressful. When I was fourteen I became pregnant with my first daughter. It was really tough, but what helped me the most was having an agency like planned parenthood to talk to. Alot of people think they are an agency who convinces young mothers to have abortions, that is however untrue. They can hook you up with support groups, health care providers, prenatal vitamins, schools for teen parents, and even help find baby clothes and equipment. There are lots of other agencies as well that do the same thing, ask your doctor I bet he knows. Anyway I am now the proud mother to three teen age girls and two younger twin boys. I am here to testify that not all teen parents are  bad. We have done pretty well for ourselves and now that our eldest child is fourteen I think about things like pregnancy all the time. It is scary, your life does change forever. I guess the best thing you can do is  be there to support her and guide her at every turn. Help her to be the best mother she can be if she so chooses. Best wishes.

Answer 15

i dont think you are a mother, you dont spell very well.

but if you are then support her and help her through this time.

Answer 16

yah right

Answer 17

shes 12 its your choice if she keeps it or not shes still a baby herself dont let her!!! make her have an abortion your gonna be the one taking care of the baby shes 2 young!!! she shoudnt even have a bf... omg how could you let her have a baby!!!! i feel relly bad for you right now... i really hope she doesn't have the baby... my sister is that age and i would be mad if she was pregnant that young... but good luck

               hope i helped =D

Answer 18

Take her to the Maury Show. lol

Answer 19

uh... let her do as she pleases. its spelt pregnant not pregnet though...

Answer 20

well it is too late for you to have the talk with her. she is a child your child, and you need to restablish who is the parent. you should never be hesitant to say anything to your child, maybe if you were not she would not be having one now!!

Answer 21

i highly doubt you have a 12 year old because you are spelling words like "wat" and "nothin" and "no" instead of "know"..and "pregnet" instead of pregnant.

But if you are just slow....then I'd do what any other parent should do and tell your 12 your old that she's under 18 and you have every bit of say so in her life...

Answer 22

your spelling is pretty horrible.  are you used to texting?  support and love your child.  you will most likely be responsible for taking care of the new baby since your child is still a child.  you will need to help motivate her to keep with school to help her future and her child's future.

Answer 23

Pray sounds like you need it.