My 13 year old daughter was looking up how to make out / french kiss online (i saw it in the history)?

Question

do i confront her or leave it alone ? she doesn't go out much besides school she is here or at her dads house 3 towns away she goes over her friends house maybe once every month or so ,so i keep a good eye on her .

Answer 1

maybe her friends wanted to know or they were talking about it with her, she's fine, truth is, my friends and i have done that too and I'm also 13. =)

Answer 2

just say to her "I saw that u searched how to make out and french kiss on the internet" and see how she reacts.. apart from that, nothing else...... its pretty normal at that age

Answer 3

shes just curious, let it pass for now.

Answer 4

Maybe she was just curious. I suggest you have "the talk" with her, but do not confront her with the websites.

Answer 5

Sweet!

Answer 6

Its fine. I remember doing that when i was her age. I was just curious, its not like i was looking to see how to and then make out with every guy in my path. I just wanted to know what it was like. No big deal. (:

Answer 7

Nothing to worry about, don't ask her about it. If you're really worried just ask her if she likes any guys.

Answer 8

She could just be curious because she heard about it somewhere. maybe just innocently ask her if any boys are catching her eye lately. Dont ask her plain out.

Answer 9

No she's 13 she too young for all of that you need to talk to her. b/c kissing could lead to much more. Don't be naive little girls as young as 9 are having s*x

Answer 10

We all did it around that time. It's only normal. However, I would keep an eye out just in case. But if you do ask her about it she will be so embarassed and never tell you anything and keep everything from you!

Answer 11

Of course you talk to her.  Why do you think she was looking it up???

Answer 12

If my mom ever asked me about why I as looking up french kissing I would be embarrassed not to mention angry because I would feel she was spying on me.

I don't think you should worry.

She's 13, she's bound to be curious. Everyone has looked up that kind of stuff at one point or in other. Unless you see some strange behavior that would cause you to be extremely worried then I would understand. But just leave it alone.

I'm sure she's fine.

Trust her.

Answer 13

I'm sorry, but you shouldn't be snooping in her history [unless it's your computer, too] It's perfectly normal. She was probably too embarassed to ask you or her friends how to do it, and thirteen is definitley old enough to start kissing, but that's all. Don't be too strict and harsh with her, and definitley don't bring it up. I'm sure she would be extremely embarssed if she knew you found out.

Answer 14

its normal for her to so :)

dont confront her, it will embarrase her sooo much.

let her get on with it :)

Its only natural

Answer 15

You should have your computer child proof ( and hers if she has her own computer) that way she can't end up on a p**n site, I know she is curious, but some things she doesn't need to know...no matter how curious she is!!!

I would talk to her about kissing and such, she is probably interested in that kind of thing and doesn't realize how dangerous it can be when it gets out of control.

That may sound silly..but look at how many 13-15 year olds are pregnant!!!

Its good that you keep an eye on her.

Next time you should ask this in Parenting...your going to get a lot of kids answering your question if you put it in here.

Answer 16

i would have the talk with her u dont want her looking things up online or going to friends instead of u it will be a good way to bond with her and open a good line of communication

Answer 17

she is just curious.

just leave it alone, but always know what she is doing.

But I do want to give you props for being an actual parent.

Thank god some parents still watch over their 13 year old daughters.

Answer 18

LOOK YOU ARE TOO PROTECTIVE. SHE SHOULD BE LEARNING HOW TO FRENCH KISS YOU NUTHEAD. go be boring somewhere else

Answer 19

I think she is just curious. I am a 13 year old girl and i guess you can say that i look that up. Just forget about and dont confront her or she will be embarrassed. She needs her privacy and like i said she is just curiious.

Answer 20

its completely normal. Confront her if she isn't how she behaves normally.

Answer 21

She just exploring her options... Be glad it's not how to have s*x or something like that...

Leave it alone.

Answer 22

Absolutely keep an eye on her, as far as the computer put a lock on the sites, she keeps wanting to visit,she'll get the point, after awhile, then when she brings it up [and she will], ask her straight out!DO YOU WANT TO REALLY GET PREGNANT AT YOUR AGE?See, what she says, tell truthfully, learning how to make out /and to be able to french kiss isn't all its cracked up to be especially if you are ONLY 13 YRS.OLD!I would let her dad know what's going on too, so he can put blocks on his computer as well, you also can tell honestly that you love her just the way she is right now,13, happy-go-lucky, no cares, no worries,(and that's how she is supposed to feel at 13) not worrying what to do if she gets pregnant, and what got her to be thinking long the lines anyway?The most she should wondering about, is where she can and be JUST  A 13 YR.OLD CHILD!Because that is what she is!Mam, I'll be praying for you and your daughter!

Answer 23

dont confront her about it, it would be so embarrasing for her, she would freak out and lose trust in you. have a talk with her, not "the talk" because she was only looking up kissing, but talk to her about how if she's into any guys and stuff like that somewhere where she feels comfortable so she doesnt feel pressured about it. also tell stories from when you started kissing boys and stuff to show that stuff liek that happens, and that your a human too.

Answer 24

DONT CONFRONT HER!!

how embarssing!! i would die!! lol

Answer 25

i am 13 also and i will admit i looked that up too not to long ago...maybe 2 months ago. the only reason i looked it up is because that night i was going to the movies with my boyfriend for the first time and i felt like i needed to know incase he "put a move on me." nothing happend at the movies but i felt more comfortable after looking it up. don't worry about her she is doing normal teen stuff.

Answer 26

i think you should let it go.good job keeping an eye on her history because the internet is a little dangerous but she is 13 not 10 and she is just curious.even if she does kiss it is only a kiss.get her on birth control soon though because a kiss does lead to more sometimes

Answer 27

ha i did the same thing too when i was younger

i just wanted to know what everyone was talking about... and alos untill you have had your first kiss it really worries you .. and u want to know exactly how its done even though once youve done it it seems liek a no brainer... i wouldnt even say anything to her... she could have been looking up way worse things.. and if i knew my parents looked at my history i would be mad just because i felt they didnt trust me even if i wasnt doing anything bad

Answer 28

Sounds pretty harmless at this point.   I think bringing it up will only make her embarassed and strive to hide things from you better next time.  

I would, however, make sure you have a good relationship with your daughter so she feels comfortable discussing boys etc.

Answer 29

I think she is just curious and it is normal.

Answer 30

I would have a little conversation about it and see if maybe she has a boyfriend or something.... better to have a talk than wish you had!