My 13 yr old sister is pregnant and im the only one who knows what should i do?

Question

ive just found out my younger 13 year old sister is pregnant it came as a shock should i tell our parents or wait till my sister is ready HELP!

Answer 1

Tell your Sister that you are going to tell your parents, this then gives her the option of telling them herself!! If she can't do it, then go with her and tell them, they need to know very quickly so that she can have the full range of options put to her!! and both hers and her baby's health can be assesed! She is very young and needs a whole lot of support right now! Good Luck.

Answer 2

could you really keep it from them?if i was you i would tell them,i know they will be angry but they will want to help her through it,thats if she wants to keep it,but really i feel shes a baby herself,but at the end of the day only she can make the choice,but i do think you both should sit them down and tell them before anyone else does

Answer 3

the best thing u can do is support yr sis every step of the way and you'll have to wait for her to tell yr parents,she is trustin u don't break the bond u have.you nd to do it quickly so she doesnt get to emotionally involved with the baby situation cos it will be worse then do it asap if yr sister is ready in herself to tell them .dont leave it to late  

Answer 4

Okay, why was she having s*x if she's 13?? Anyway, you should tell your parents immediately, because if you don't want to keep the baby you should be on a very early stage!

Good luck! :)

Answer 5

support her all yuo can

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Answer 6

DO NOT tell your parents without her permission! she's probably going through enough right now anyway and she doesn't need any more stress. help her and support her in any way possible and let her tell them when she's ready!

Answer 7

Be supportive and encourage her to tell your parents because she needs prenatal care and such! Do not tell your parents with out her knowing because it can really mess up you guys relationship! And she wont be able to talk to you again! So wait until she's ready to do it! Talk to her about and stuff and get her to do it!!

Answer 8

Support her in every way, she is trusting you.  SHe needs to be the one to tell them when she is ready.  She would be sooo mad at you if you did it.

Answer 9

Your parents really need to know about this, she is far to young to deal with the emotion etc that goes with it. Have a chat with her and try and get her to talk to your parents, tell her you will be there for support..

Answer 10

well im a boy and i was a dad at the age of 14 well i am 14 stilll well i thought my parents would kill me but they understood it wasnt planned i no its underage but they new i would have s*x inaway but they was quite upset i came verry close to my girlfriend and then c moved in with me it is always best to tell some one because you need suport to get through this by the way i have a son we named it jaden its better 2 tell ur parents so they can help you i hope you do fine in wateva u decide to do

Answer 11

wait till your sisters ready

Look right your sister was old enough to have s*x.. that means she needs to sort this out herself.

Your parents would go mental but who cares you want your sister and your neice/nephew to be ok.

Shes trusted you and i think you should look after her.. talk to her through it all.

Do whats best for her and that baby

wil she be able to cope?

really you need to be an auntie now or uncle :S lol

be an amazing person and look after this

You can do it

xx

Answer 12

great, another kid ruining her life! I'm 13 and i'd never think of doing something like that, its so dumb and irresponsible. i don't mean to offend you or your sister, but are you kidding me!? tell your parents of course like NOW, they'll know what to do. don't be dumb and wait until shes showing to finally tell them. its not like shes going to get in any less trouble.

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Answer 13

dont tell ur parents.  its not ur place to tell them.  now that u know about it, u should be there for ur sister. help her thru it & help her make her dicisions.  be there 4 her.  when she is ready she will tell ur parents, even if she isnt ready - they will know when they see her big belly.

Answer 14

For her not to feel betrayed i think you should tell her that she have to tell your parents for her own safety then both of you go to your parents, sit down and tell them.  

Answer 15

when she's ready she'll tell your parents. Tell her hurry because she's going to need to start her prenatal care. But when she's ready she'll tell your parents. And when she does tell them and they say how come you didn't tell me. Play dumb and act like you didnt know what was happening. lol

Answer 16

go ahead and tell them shes gonna hate you for it at first but she'll get over it and be glad that youdid in the long run

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tell them and makethem say they noticed on there own ( she's tierd , or sick or hormone change ) remain anyonomous

Answer 17

Talk to her and offer her all the support she needs from you without passing judgment and let her know you will be there for her and tell her you will go with her when she tells your parents and you will tell them together. I got pregnant when I was 14 and had my son at 15-1/2 years old and facing everybody is the hardest thing to do, especially if you have to do it alone and without support. Just be there for her and be sure that your parents go easy on her afterwards, even if they want to "break her neck." It's going to be hard on her but I hope she makes the right choice for her and gets all the support she needs. Just be there for her and wish her luck from me.

Answer 18

Oh god. Yet another teen pregnancy.

First of all, tell your parents about this! It's serious and important because it's their baby having a baby!

Second of all, don't get her to have an abortion. There are millions of couples out there who would love to have a baby and can't. This could be their chance! If she is thinking of adoption that is. If not, I hope she keeps her baby safe and happy.

Good luck and do tell your parents right away, and get her to explan it to your parents aswell!

Answer 19

convince her to tell ur parents you could even tell them together..either way they have to know so they can talk to your sister about her options and you can all figure out whats the best thing to do.

Answer 20

I think that you should speak to her and see if she is ready to tell them, If she is ready and would rather that you told them then you should tell them for her,

Answer 21

Tell your parents, sweetie- and do it quickly, because your sister really needs help. Her LIFE is at stake here. Pregnancy at her age is VERY DANGEROUS, and sometimes, it can be DEADLY for both the mom and the baby. Quite apart from this, your parents have some major decisions to make, because there is no way your sister can possibly keep or raise a baby, not at her age. How is she going to support it? She can't get a job, and she isn't old enough yet to drive, so how is she going to support a baby, much less herself?? Who's the daddy here, sweetie- and how old is HE?? If he's older than 16, then your parents are within their rights to have him arrested and charged with raping your sister- and they can sue him and his parents for child support and medical costs for her.  

No, you need to do the right thing and tell your parents about this ASAP. They are going to find out about it anyway- in fact, I am surprised they don't already know. I'm sure your sister has been sick at least part of the time- most girls who get pregnant usually suffer with morning sickness, often severely so. This is the wrong time of year for the flu, so her puking in the mornings and refusing to eat is a dead giveaway to anyone who is observant, like I am sure your mom is.  There's another side to this too- namely, that your sister can't possibly get any kind of medical treatment on her own- she's still a little girl in the eyes of the law, and NO doctor will even lay a finger on her without your parents' consent. There is too much likelyhood of a lawsuit if they did, so none of them will. Yes, I am sure your sister will be pissed at you for speaking up- but believe me, you are doing her a HUGE favor. She CAN'T handle this alone, and she isn't mature enough herself to know what the best course of action to take is.

Good luck, and I hope you find the strength to speak up and tell your parents about this.  

Answer 22

You both need to tell your parents about it.  You need to force her to do it and be with her to be some support for her.

If she's going to have an abortion, then it needs to be as soon as possible so delaying the matter won't help.  

I know it is going to be horrible and possibly the worst thing either of you will have ever had to confront your parents with, but it has to be done, so do it today.  

I'm sorry that you and her are both having to go through this (it must be almost as upsetting for you as it is for her), but the sooner your parents are told the better it will be.  I hope they're understanding, but prepare yourselves for the worst and you might be surprised.  Good luck with it.

Answer 23

You need to support your sister. She will be scared and worried. You shouldn't tell you parents, she should be able to do it in her own time - however you should try and get her to do it sooner, rather then later.

Answer 24

support her, but if you tell yer parents shell hate you forever, eventually they are gunna know, so just support her, and maybe suggest she tell them because they are gunna find out eventually...

hope taht helps:]

Answer 25

so she had s*x at age 12 or 13??? wow wtf is she doing having s*x at such a young age shes still a little baby, i would tell the parents as soon as you read tis reply otherwise emotions start getting botteled up, and then it leads into someoen snaping, and crying and on and on and eventually the parents will wonder why she is so upset and they will see that belly get fatter and fatter, and they will find out themselves, and trust me its way worse if they find out them selves vs you telling them in the beggining.....u dont want that tell them now.

Answer 26

13 is a very young age to get pregnant, i have just had my first baby and i am more than double her age! Firstly you need to tell your parents a.s.a.p, she made need some help, if my 13 year old niece got pregnant then god knows what would happen, i couldnt leave her on her own in the same room as Ella! I think telling your parents  would be the most sensible thing to do; she may be able to get an abortion, before summer is over and that may be a good idea. If i were you i would tell your parents, she will thank you one day, trust  me!

Answer 27

tell your parents immediately, the more you keep hiding the bigger the problem will be, at last you are the one which will be blamed for not telling the truth, trust me.

Answer 28

i know she will get in to trouble by telling her parents but this is serouse  

and its urgent or she has to have a abortion.

Answer 29

If you can't convince her to tell you parents then do it yourself. She can't afford to wait she is WAY too young to be alone in this.

Answer 30

I agree, be supportive for her...

bt say to her..

i'll give you ( a certain amount of time ) to tell mum... or i will...

she needs to know

so she can support your sister,

and ur mum will understand from having kids already eh

Answer 31

Hi. Be supportive of your sister and try to encourage her to speak to your parents. Tell her you will be with her when she tells them if she wants. She will have to tell them sometime and it would be better for it to be sooner rather than later. You shouldnt tell them though as it will be better coming from her. Hope all goes well.