My daughter is 7 y.o. and was playing with her 7 y.o. friend. They were pretending to be cats and my daughter said she was going to have kittens. My 15 y.o. stepdaughter, who is visiting for a few weeks this summer, was not playing with them, but was listening and walked over to my daughter and said, "You better NOT be pregnant!!" very sternly. My daughter asked Why? but before an answer was given, I interrupted and said of course you can have kittens, keep playing. Then I asked my stepdaughter to come with me out of the room and told her privately that I would prefer if she didn't say that to the girls.
She did not understand why it was innappropriate. I tried to explain that I will be very happy someday if my daughter gets pregnant, and has a baby. I don't expect her to get pregnant before she is ready ( I didn't, but my husband and my stepdaughter's mom were teenage parents.)
Anyway, now she is annoyed with me and I just brushed it off and went on making lunch and cleaning house. Frankly, the whole thing annoys me. I don't plan to bring it up later. As far as I am concerned it is settled. But, she is still acting standoff-ish. She will probably be fine in a couple of hours.
Can someone explain her side to me? What advice do you have?
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