My 15 year old daughter brought a 17 year old boy in our house because she says we are too strict?

Question

we are kinda protective of her but this was very dissappointed in her we feel that she should be put away for discipline .She knows what she did was wrong but can't seem to understand the importance of this action.

Answer 1

15 year old girls shouldnt be anywhere near 17 year old boys. she probably wanted to make you mad. im 16 and i feel mad that my parents restrict me from things but i dont go off and do it. i would discipline her.

Answer 2

so what thats only 2 yrs older.

dang.

its her life also dont u forget.

Answer 3

she is testing you to see what your limit is.  Once you stay firm, she will get the message.

Answer 4

she is at the age where she is going to test you as parents and you need to stay firm and strong with what you believe---be her parent, not a friend at this age and later in life she will thank you for it--she may get mad at you now but it is the age--she will get over it--if she knows what she did was wrong, then discipline her and just keep communication open so everyone is on the same page--good luck with her

Answer 5

What is wrong with it. She wasn't hiding anything from you and it's only 2 years difference. You are going to force her to start sneaking around behind your back. You need to lighten up a little bit.

Answer 6

You aren't! Tell him she should only date nice pious boys, and you are in control.

Pray hard,

traditionalgirl

Answer 7

maybe he's an upstanding lad who would be a good influence

and she wants to show you.

how much over 30 are you?

Answer 8

Most girls are ridiculous like that.  Lord only knows why.  When mom and dad are protective, they feel compelled to go out and tick them off.  My parents are protective and I never blatantly went against their jurisdiction.  In fact, I went so far as to date a guy whom my dad knew from church and was very impressed with.  Yet my older sister, on the other hand, seems to relish the thought of pushing their buttons.  Now she's pregnant with the devil's child and breaking their hearts.  So it's not like it has anything to do with you.  Two kids will react to the same parenting in polar opposite ways... half of it is how lucky you get with their personality.

Answer 9

Guess what? Your daughter is...*gasp* a normal human being with a desire to interact with someone she's attracted to!!

Punishing your daughter for this will only send her the wrong message and it will also cause her to sneak behind your back. Do you want to end up a grandma in the next 2 years? Be open with your kids, don't throw the in a chastity belt and expect them to remain 'innocent' until age 25.

Answer 10

well.., my cousin isn't even 13. her really good friend is 14, but they're in the same grade. they run around with a 16 yerr old... their 'rents dont relly care. but idk. i dont see anythingg wrong. i mean my guy friends and i all hang out at each others houses home alone and everything..,

Answer 11

hehehehe

Answer 12

Okay she brought a 17 year old boy to your house, two years difference. At least she didn't go to his house, and she had the decensing (sp) to introduce the boy to you guys.I'm sure you guys did worst when you were kids. Geeze louise. Just talk to her about life and all the consequences of things like s*x, drugs, etc whatever else you want to throw in there. good luck.

Answer 13

fkn im 14 y/o 20 wks pregnant and hav an 18 y/o boyfriend 2 years is not a big big  difference