My son is normally, and for the most part very well behaved. He is absolutely adorable, has a beautiful spirit and a very cheerful disposition. However, since he was about 6-months-old he has been biting me, normally on my shoulder or my finger. At first I took it as just a part of teething and would try to give him something else to bite on. As he got older I began to verbalize my pain with "OUCH" and " NO BITE" and "THAT HURTS MOMMY". I was not yelling, I just had a stern tone, no smile on my face and I was not laughing. It has only been getting worse and instead of just biting he is now hitting and pinching me as well when I take something from him or tell him "No".
Luckily, it seems to be only me and not other children. His day-care provider assures me he shows no signs of anger or rage while he is with her, and has never bitten, hit or pinched another child. This is both a relief and a bit of a discomfort to me. On one hand I am glad he is not biting other children, on the other I am confused as to why he seems to take ALL his anger and frustration out on me. I am a single Mom. He sees his Dad on Wednesdays and Thursdays every week. I am not sure how he behaves over there or if they allow him to get away with things that I do not. I am not very strict with him, but I am not going to raise an aggresive, physically abusive little boy. I believe that time-outs are appropriate for this type of behavior.
I am looking for any advice on how to deal with the biting and encourage him to deal with his anger in some other way. I swear sometimes its like living with a baby shark! He bites hard. It leaves bruises and sometimes breaks the skin. Also, do you think it's weird that he only bites me and nobody else. I am not a mean Mommy and I am very loving and supportive so it hurts that he seems to be lashing out at only me.
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