My 16 yrs old son in love how can i stop him?

Question

My 16 yrs old son in love how can i stop him?

Answer 1

You can't stop someone from being in love.

Answer 2

remember this, you try and stop him and he will go behind your back. it is always best to accept your childs feelings. if you force him to not see her again you will get nothing but resentment and possibly hate. and 16 year olds are more likely to hold a grudge for it.

Answer 3

mind your business

Answer 4

you cant stop!!

Answer 5

what are you on about...

love is the most wonderful thing in the world!

as long as you have taught him morals, repect and good judgement, thigns will be fine and you should be happy for him!!

Answer 6

u can't stop him. don't even try or u will loose ur son.

if the girl is not good, try to put it in his attention without directly saying that to his face but thats all u can do.

Answer 7

hey its normal at his age to get involve with somebody, .come to thnik of it, it will give him a fair wonderful experience, good or bad . love or ache.. happiness or pain.. the mere fact that all of this things are part of relationship that sooner or later he will going to use. To become more mature,& strong person .

You cannot stop him.. bec the more you stop him the more rebellion he might be, just to prove his on control. you just need to guide him about life & love.

Answer 8

Is this your first step to world domination?

Answer 9

you cant stop it.  dont you remember being in high school and thinking that first love was everything?  dont fight it or forbid it. you will only make it worse.

Answer 10

You can't stop your son from being in love. Do you remember being 16? There is nothing anyone can tell you because you feel the way you feel. He has to learn and experience life on his own. Just make sure you are there to support him when he's doing bad or even when he is feeling happy. That's what mother's do.

Answer 11

He's 16 it's puppy love. He will soon grow out of it. If you try to stop him or make him feel ashamed about what he is feeling you will push him away. He will then sneak behind your back to do things because he will feel that you will disapprove. Just let him be and just encourage him to wait on the s*x part.

Answer 12

thats soo Stupid. Why would you ask such a question and why would you not want him to enjoy his life?

Answer 13

thats horrbile to even ask such a question lady!

i am 17 and in love, p**s off maybe? and let him be happy.

i cant belive you.

Answer 14

take him on a trip where there are alot of girls, because he is way to young to even know what love means, let him look at the other chicks that are here.

Answer 15

Come on!  let him live life -you never know what may happen!.

I was 14, he was 15 - we are married (were 30 then) and have just celebrated our 23 year anniversary - see it can be for real!!

We also have 2 children together!

Answer 16

start liking the girl. he will lose interest.lol.

Answer 17

don't stop him... this is normal... just try giving him an advice...

Answer 18

You can't and I'd hate to be your son. Wait until years down the line when he gets married. He will live through h**l because you will give an ultimatum between you or his wife/fiance.

Answer 19

You can't. You can try, and you may think you can - but it doesn't work.

When I was 16 my dad broke me and my boyfriend up, and threatened to throw him in jail if he ever saw me again. (He'd just turned 18). I didn't see him again for years - went through a very rough relationship - purely out of spite with a 21 year old a year later.

After I turned 18, we got back together - because forbidden love is absolutely irresistable - and the spite factor as well. We got married, had a beautiful baby girl and we divorced when she was 2. It took us that long to realize that we didn't really like each other all that much in the first place - but having it ripped from us at such a time was more devastating than reality.

Don't do that to your son!

Answer 20

Use reverse psychology. Tell him you can't wait for his wedding day and ALL those grandchildren he'll produce. This way at least you can have a little fun with him because quite frankly there isn't a darn thing you can do about it. It will eventually fizzle out. Just be patient.

Answer 21

maybe ask romeo and juliet's parents.

Answer 22

AAAAAAAAAAAAW!  Let him be in love!

Let him enjoy it before the heartbreak and disappointment starts.

Teenagers first love is so sweet! Don't be a meanie!