I was a single mother most of his life (until I got married to another man about 4 years ago). He does not know his biological father...his father was alcoholic and abusive, so he's always been out of the picture. I, too, battle with severe depression (which my son has witnessed), and I tend to yell at my son a lot and have little patience with him (even when he was a little boy), but at the same time I've always let him know how much I love him and have had many fun times with him as well (very conflicting). I want the two of us to go to counseling, but he refuses. I love him so much and it tears my heart that I caused his depression and low self esteem. My son is a good kid by social standards (no drugs, no alcohol, polite to others). But, it seems as if he hates me...I love him so much and this is breaking my heart to see my son feel this way. He reminds me a lot like myself when I was his age...low self esteem, non-assertive, and keeps his feelings internal, and even suicidal. ...Please, anyone who can help...I love him more than life itself...I don't know what to do. I just want him to be happy. ...He enlisted in the Navy a few months back, and now is desperately trying to get out before he has to deport for boot camp in October...He said he made a huge mistake to enlist in the first place and was just trying to run away from his problems.
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