My 19 year old brother keeps spying on me in the bathroom and he says "joking" but won't stop I told my mom...

Question

and he denies everything he comments on my p***s, my body, I scream but he runs away! I hate him. What can I do to make him stop?

Answer 1

If you're under 18, what your brother is doing borders on a s*x offense.  If your parents are refusing to take your seriously, you may want to consider going to the authorities or at least talking to a teacher or school councilor.

Answer 2

Convince your mom to kick him out.

Answer 3

Your brother may have some type of hidden issues. I suggest that you begin to spy into his life, look into his internet logs see what he finds an interest in looking at. He may be curious about the same s*x or into spying on people in public, which is a fetish and also a very sinful personality trait. If this is the case, tell your mother and father both about his actions, He needs to be ridiculed in some form, or punished to make him realize how serious you are. Be careful if you decide to snoop in his business, these are only suggestions.

I hope this helps

Answer 4

What did your mom do?

Sounds like a future child molester.

Tell him he can go to jail for this! Hopefully that will freak him out.  

Answer 5

I usually don't believe in the "get even" solution, but in this case perhaps turning the tables on him would stop him from taunting you this way.  Or when he comments on your p***s ask him as loud as you can "what do you mean my p***s is *whatever*?"  See where that gets you.  This would be highly effective when your parents are around to hear it.

Answer 6

You really need to get your brother to a psychologist because this is definitely not normal behavior for a 19 year old guy towards his 18 year old brother. He may be having some issues and these issues need to be taken care of as soon as possible because they may get worse and he could probably start doing it to other people.

Answer 7

lock the door. If it doesn't lock, buy one, or block the door with something. He seems to have some serious issues.

Answer 8

that's really intrusive. first off, you should have a serious talk with your brother about privacy. second, if he continues, you have to act like it doesn't bother you (sounds like he's trying to get under your skin). third, talk to your mom about it, without your brother there. good luck!

Answer 9

If he does it again, get your mom and have a sit down with them both . Explain that you need your privacy and your uncomfortable with what he does. Your mom should take it from there

Answer 10

Start making a big deal out of it.

Yell to the whole house that you're going into the shower and you want the door to stay shut so your brother doesn't spy.  Until this is resolved, don't shower without someone else in the house.  He could be waiting to trap you alone.

At the dinner table, or when your family is around, tell everyone what he does.

When he comments on your p***s, make fun of his.

Tell him that at least you don't get hard spying on family.  Say it LOUD!

Consider telling the authorities.

He's 19. Unless you're 18, this is against the law.  Even if he's family.

The more you keep this secret, the more power he has.

The more shame you can bring to him, and the rest of your family, the safer you may be.

Because, I think you're in danger of being molested if not outright raped.

Get help.

Answer 11

Start screaming bloody murder if he does it again and if your mother doesn't listen, you may have to take this to the authorities or move out.

Answer 12

WTF!!!! you're brother is messed up. i could see if he was like 3, but 19 OMG. i'm sorry you got a brother like that