My 1st question! Please help if you can....?

Question

Anyone with an 'ability or 6th sense'..... I've been internally struggling with my situation for 8 months now and appreciate all of your insight.

(Of course this involves a man) We've been involved for just over 4 years. What may he be thinking or feeling? Am I holding out for nothing, or will the tables turn in my our favor?

If you need more, I'd be glad to email you :) Thank you for your relevant answers!

Answer 1

Hmmmm Let me think about this. You seem like a nurse.........LOL..I saw your 360!! No..I'm not psychic! WELCOME TO YA...AND TO THE PARANORMAL SECTION! Thanks for choosing us first. I don't know how in the world you found us!! We're "in hiding". lol

  I have no idea if you should keep waiting to marry this guy. Four years is a long time...but if you marry the wrong person ..four years can be a really looooooooooooonnnnnggggg time!!! If you've been involved with him for that long...seems like you'd KNOW what he's thinking and feeling. Is he a "cold" type person? He won't change if you marry him...probably get worse. Don't settle if you have doubts. My Latin teacher used to say "If in doubt,,DON'T!" I've remembered that ...even though I didn't follow her advice. Maybe you will.

Edit.."hislady " usually has insight ...maybe she'll answer you soon.l

Answer 2

Hi I get a strong sense of you walking away up a path & away from him--he's sitting in a lawn chair back on the lawn that is at the bottom of the path.

That isn't "good" for long term stability.

Chances are you need to move on or go back to him & explain how/why this current situation isn't working & hopes he walks back up that path with you but as it "feels" now--that does not feel right to me.

Answer 3

Sorry to say, but it sounds like it's over.  Please don't base important life decisions on the proffered advice of strangers who think they have magical abilities.

Answer 4

i hae no 6th sense but i can tell you that if you hav been with this guy for that long and hes not asked to be married i don't think he will long as he can get away with it and i suspect yu should drop him and go else where instead of waiting for whta? i mean if hes not the marrying type which it sounds like its time to go i mean after 6 mos to year you should hae some idea what is up and get moving girl. take care.

Answer 5

Who's dream are you trying to hold onto? Yours, his or the Societies?

If you can't ask your man how he feels about you and whether he wants to have a future with you, than what's the point of stressing about it? Your partner should be someone you can share everything with, even your anxieties about your relationship...

People say I'm psychic - but you don't have to be one to know that there is no closeness in this relationship...you are following conventional rules...Your partner is not conventional by the way, so have you asked yourself whether you are trying to hold onto an ideal, rather than see the truth to who he is...

Answer 6

Developping all senses begins with   self-respect

because allsenses are part of yourself and they love to be respected.

Answer 7

he is too distant from you. i do not feel your energies are all that connected in that way. but hey, everyone could be wrong... you just never know. perahps though, logically, go for a man who notices you first and pursues you, not he other way around. you both will be happier that way... im sorry :)

Answer 8

You have reservations for a reason. If he hasn't committed after four years, chances arent good that he will. He's committment shy, he loves you, but due to his past, the thought scares him. He needs to work on himself first and be content within himself, be at peace within himself before he can ever commit to someone else. So the old adage "it's not you, it's me" really is true in this case. He's very uncertain of himself as it pertains to your relationship. He's not even sure he's good enough for you. Does he suffer from self esteem issues?? Possibly an abusive past? His parents relationship wasn't good and he fears you two will end up the same.

Peace to you. :)