My 2yrs son was very irritating.He always want every thing which is not good for him like mobile /comp/etc

Question

how should i treat him with his unnessary demands?what should i have to do for changing this habbit?when is the right time to tell him what is good or not?why he is doing like this?

Answer 1

He is two years old he wants your attention.  If he irritates you so much put him up for adoption I'm sure there are people out there who would love to have a 2 year old "irritate" them .

Answer 2

Wy is he doing this?

-Because its what children do-they see things that look interesting-they make noises, have buttons,l ights etc and they want to explore. Its human nature!!! If he sees you doing it then he will want to imitate as children learn through what they see around them as 'normal'.

Who should you treat him? Like usual as he has dont nothing wrong by showing an interest. If you do not want to let him play with those things then simply direct his attention elsewhere...give him some other toys to play with, take him for play down the park etc.

HOw to change his 'habit'?  It's his interest so you'll need to get him interested in other things. Maybe put the computer, mobile etc out of view and stop using it around him. If you want to give him a more; natural world' interest then take him in the garden, let him him help pull up weeds, plant seeds. Play with wooden toys together like dolls house, jigsaws, wooden play figures etc.

When it right time for good/not? Well he hasnt done anything wrong-if you are wanting to tell him dangers such as computers hurting eyes etc I would nt do that till he's older..or atleast make it a simple version as you may just scare him and make him feel anxious.  

Answer 3

He wants to copy you and do the things you do too.

Can you let him have his own smaller version of these things?  I gave my daughter a computer keyboard to play with and she loves it! This makes sure you don't kill his interest in things, but keeps his things and your things seperate.

Tell him now what is good and bad, as he will understand the word no.  He may copy this too, but you calmly explain this is a word for mummies and daddies and he will soon stop!

Good luck!