My 'monthly friend' coming? period question? every girl here answer please?

Question

ok so im 13 and im just wondering when im gonna get my monthly friend. lol ive been having dishcarge for almost 5 months now ever since the mid of april. its white and clear and a long time ago it used to be yellowish? was that normal? but now its just comes out clear and idk if this is pee or discharge but when it dries up it becomes yellow and smells like pee kind of but its usually white and clear, thick and gooey is that normal? and it usually comes everyday. and is the discharge still going to come when i get my period or will it stop?ive also been getting alot of cramps, not everyday but usually. i bearly even started to develope chest. im an AA. so any idea when im going to start approx??? and does this mean im going to get it soon also im going to turn 14 in february'09 and im just wondering if 14 years is the average girl year to get your first period???? i want my period to come faster really badly. i know im going to hate it once i get my period but i just want it really bad so that ill be proud that im finally a woman. the only time i saw blood was when i was wiping myself down there and there was just a faint faint red dot on the tip and that was like 4 months ago. was that the beginning of my first period or was that hymen stuff?

also dont tell me "oh your so lucky you dont have your period yet it sucks, i hate it! and be happy you dont have it cuz its gonna be a pain" dont tell me that cuz i know im gonna hate it but im just curious.

so can anyone explain to me about this?

no rude comments!

please help me:) and please answer all the questions in the 'detail'

thanks

Answer 1

the disharge is normal and you will still get it when nyou have your periods.

No-one can tell you when you might get your period.... it can happen today or it can happen in 2 years but most girls get there period at 13-14 (some as late as 17)

I know exactly how you feel ... i remeber being your age and wanting them soo so bad

and trust me time will fly and you will eventually get them

but the fact that you got a bit of blood 4 months ago can indicate that you may get them soon.

Be patient!

Answer 2

girls can start there period some start as young as 7 or 8. chances are good that with lots of cramping you could have it soon most ppl i talk to said that have it about 2yrs from when there mom have her first one. discharge can come in lots of colors white and clear are the most normal but unless it is like white with black spots i wouldnt worry to much it is part of growing up. as to When you will have you period it is up to your body.

Well i hope this helps and if you have any more questions there is a site its  www.beinggirl.com they have lots of q & a from young girls and there is a dr that can answer questions tooo

Answer 3

there is no explanation other than will it is your time it will come. there is no magic formula to determine exactly when your period will come. it is controlled by hormones and when your levels are correct it will happen. menses can occur as young as 9 for some girls, others may not get theirs until they are in their late teens.  

Answer 4

when i got my very first period i was in 5th grade and had a "stomach ache" which ended up being cramps. then the next morning bam i had my period. no one can tell you when your going to start but since you are 13 i would say soon but cant tell you how soon

Answer 5

Well I started on my 13th birthday, the discharge sounds normal. I don't think the hint of red was your first period. You will definitely know when it comes. Your hymen will bust when you have s*x. Just pace yourself, everything will come naturally. Some people start their periods at like 9 some like my mom started at 16. When ever Mother Nature calls you'll know. Good Luck!

Answer 6

The blood dot, Idk, probably wasn't your hymen or your period.  I busted my hymen without having s*x and didn't even realize I did it.  I ride a lot of horses though, that could have been it.

The discharge sounds totally normal, I get the same thing.

And the period thing, I'm sixteen and have had discharge for like six months, B cup, and still no sign of it.  But, I'm not really missing it.  I just told everyone at school I already got it.  If that's what you feel like you need to do to fit in at school, go for it.

Answer 7

Nobody knows exactly when you'll get it. It'll come eventually, and trust me, once you do have it, you won't want it much anymore!

Ask your mum when she got hers, as you'll probably get it around the same time. Just don't get too stressed about it, it'll come in its own time.

Answer 8

Every single women is different when they will or will not start there periods. It sounds like you are starting to show the signs, it could be anywhere from a few days from now to a few years. It will come soon enough.

As for the discharge, you will have that for the rest of your life, and it is much needed when you become sexually active (long long time from now!)

To me it sounds like your body is in the midst of changing.

Welcome to the start of womenhood.

Answer 9

You might have it later on when your 13-15 years old

Some get it late

If its clear thats normal

Just try and be patient It'll come

=D

Answer 10

soon!