My 4yrs daughter crying to make us agree and she never keeps her promise shr is a good child?

Question

but now a days she reply back in a bad way.me and my husband try to give her most of our time but she is getting into nerves. she eats in home but if she is in others house she will eat again...ufffffff

Answer 1

she is using tears to get her own way and a 4 year can't comprehend promises are for ever. Sounds like she is the one is charge

Answer 2

I think you shouldn't pamper her too much. Sometimes you have to be a bit strict with certain children. Some children response to soft treatment but some children response to hard treatment. In othe word not all children response  to the same treatment, so you have to try which one suits your daughter

Answer 3

Tough to answer, but I think your trying to say she won't listen to you and crys to get her way.  

   Is she a good child?  That's for you to decide, you the one who will impact her life the most.  

   I just wouldn't give in, let he cry.  It may be tough, but that will build your child into understanding that they won't get there way by crying.  This way over the years, they will become more responsive to what you say instead of what they want.

My Experience...

  My cousin cried for everything and would cry until he got his way.  My aunt would give in.  To this day he is 18, she writes his college apps and bought him nice car, and gives into anything he wants.  He has to be the most spoiled child I have seen.  Is he a bad child?  Behavior, yes I would say he is.  Is he a pleasant guy, sure he is :D

That just a little bit of what I can tell you, I mean, I'm no parent and am nowhere near close to being one unfortunately  : /

Good Luck to you and your Daughter,

    -Kyle Sobus