My 6th grade brother is a s*x offender HELP PLEASE! we've tried everything!!?

Question

he just got suspended from school. The principal said that he and some other boys had been sexually harassing some of their classmates today, and that they had been watching pornographic videos online.

He is already failing 2 classes, he's always had school problems. At home, he is selfish and gets jealous easily, and he likes to turn us against each other. And he lies all the d**n time!

We have tried everything with him, we punish him and take away the video games, and the tv. We make him read, stay in after school programs, study.

...UNTIL he improves his behavior

We live in a pretty decent neighborhood, but he always chooses to be with the wrong people.

as you already know, we cant follow him 24/7 and decide who he chooses to be his friends. but when we can, we dont let him go out with kids who like to steal and do graffiti.

and we do give him enough attention! we reward him when he does something good, which is almost never.

WHAT THE **** ARE WE SUPPOSED TO DO!?

HELP!!!

Answer 1

Well, since school is out, yes you CAN control where he is 24/7.  If he can't behave in an approproate manner, he just needs to stay at home all the time.  If he wants to see his friends, they can come to your house, where the parents can decide if these are appropriate people to hang around with.  Say it's harsh if you like, but he is showing that he doesn't give a d**n what anyone thinks, so he needs to be brought under control until he learns his lesson.  That.... or boot camp.  Think he's bad now?  Just think how bad he will be when he's older if it isn't fixed now.

Answer 2

1) Honestly if the father doesn't spank him, he needs to start. That may help a little. But, if that doesn't help see if you can't SHOW him what happens to real s*x offenders online, maybe even contact your local law enforcement or something along those lines to show him what happens when people do the things that he is doing. I know it sounds a little harsh, but that could be the only thing that helps .. Or you may even try to send him to Boot Camp or something along those lines ..

Answer 3

You seriously need to give him a good spanking the get the message across whenever he does sometime really bad. Be mean to him and call him names that suggest that he's an idiot. Confront him about being a s*x offender and tell him that it's nasty and all that. Maybe he'll realize that he doesn't want to be like that even if he doesn't show it.

Answer 4

take him to church. were he can find better friends. some kinda counseling wouldn't hurt either.

Answer 5

hurt his feelings and make him cry .

sometimes the father really does need to spank his children when they do not listen like this... its probably the best solution. show him that he is not the boss and that if he lives undr yur house , he has to go by those rules.