My 6yr old son is having a problem with following direction in Kindergarten,buss and @ home I need help?

Question

How would you deal with this, and also how would you disaplin him? I don't know if I am being to harsh on him but we had a new baby last June and I have been tring to show him attention and I know she takes alot of time but woundering if that could be alot to do with it?

Answer 1

Could be the baby or could be a health issue.  I say this b/c our son was just tested for ADHD and turns out he has it and is now being treated and is 100% better in school.  I would try to get some extra time with him per day (I know, impossible) and see if that helps.  Maybe talk to his teachers or principal at school to see what they think.  They are usually very helpful b/c they see things like this all of the time.  Good luck.  You're a great mom for being so concerned.  :)

Answer 2

try giving extra attention.  is there anyone who can watch your daughter when your son is home?  maybe you can give more attention for a few week; then ask him to help with the baby,

Answer 3

ask your son to help you take care of little sister.

Answer 4

Following directions is very had for my 6 year old too!  This may sound stupid, but I watch Supernanny and she really does had good suggestions.  It is all in your follow through (which I am terrible at).  I know it get extremely frustrating, but you can do it.  She uses time outs, one minute per year of age.  After that talk about why he was in there and then hug it out.  But you have to make sure he sits the whole 6 minutes.  If he gets up put him back with out talking to him.  Time outs are not for talking or anything else.  I am sure he is having troubles adjusting to the new baby.  make sure you try to set aside some time just for the 2 of you.  That will make him feel more secure with the new baby, even if it is just a 1/2 hour or so a day.   I know it is easier said then done and I am sure you have your hands full, but I know you can do it!

Good Luck!

Answer 5

He probably is having a hard time adjusting with the new baby! My 6 y/o did when his younger brothers were born. First, if you think it might be time consumption with the baby, let him help you do things for the baby. That made me son feel as if he had to help care for the baby just as I did! It worked like magic. Punishment should fit with what they did wrong. Since my son has been is school, I make him write his sight words extra or write 1-100. I know that sounds weird, but when he is finished he is always pleased because he has learned something new. Just try whatever you think will work. If you spank him, he may lash out more. Following direction...give him a small simple,but fun task and see how he does, then explain that he did great at it, and anytime he is given a task to listen well and try his best!! Good Luck!!

Answer 6

I would have a talk with his teacher to start.  I would talk to her about front row seating, less distraction from other children.  Also remember that One out of 150 children are autistic on some level.  This is more prevelant in boys.  I have an autistic child myself, high functioning.  I would involve your son in everything that has to do with the new baby, so he feels that she is his little sister and has responsibility to take care of. It will make him have a higher sense of self esteem.  There is nothing wrong with being a dreamer.  I would not discepline for not paying attention.  The not following directions...depends on if it is because he is being defiant or because he just did not know.  Also , I would check to see if his hearing is working properly.

Also..lol...when children spend too much time at the TV, they can become over stimulated and have attention issues.  I would take him to the park, sports, and any other activity that will keep him active.  I know it sounds like a lot to do, but starting one at a time works great.  Good luck!

Answer 7

your son is only acting out cause of the new baby thats all, he doesn't have a learning disability or anything else, i really hate it when people try to label their children with things like ADD and what not

as for you son, get him to help you out with the baby and setup mommy and son time, get him to play big brother and what not and have him help you out. IF you do that, you will see a BIG change in him and he will start behaving and listening to his elders because he will feel like one :)

Answer 8

It's hard to know what you mean by following direction. You mean he isn't listening or is disobeying the rules? If you could give some examples or describe what you mean more that would be helpful. My son has issues with following direction but he has been diagnosed with a learning disability, that's why I am asking for more specifics.