My sister who is a stay at home mom has my 3yr old daughter 8 hours a day while I work. I'm a single mother, so it makes it very hard leaving my child in her care. I've been having a problem lately. My 7yr old nephew is always yelling at her for stuff. So I got onto him about it the other day, and then I started yelling at my daughter for the same reason he was. My sister was like, you can't tell him not to yell at her and then start yelling at her. I said, oh yes I can I'm her mother and he is not. The difference is that he doesn't know how to discipline without totally freaking out on her. I feel that it is just teaching her that yelling and screaming is ok. I told my sister that I needed her to back me up when it came to her son and she said that there was just some things that she didn't agree with. I feel like weather she agrees with me or not she should back me up in some way. Her kids treat me with no respect because they don't see me as an authority figure. What should I do. Should I sit her down and tell her that she needs to start backing me up, or should I just let it go. I don't like fighting with her cause she always makes little things into these big issues and then won't talk to me for like a week. I just don't want my kid to start treating me like hers do. Maybe I should find another sitter.
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