My 8 year old daughter told me last week she had been touched by my best friends 14 year old son while i was shopping in the supermarket with my friend. Below is everything she told me which i have written down and put away for safe keeping.
We left them in the car as normally when we take them into a supermarket they are always asking for things. We were not going to be long so we left the kids in the unlocked car. I am not using real names to protect my daughter. My friends son i will call 'Adam' and my daughter i will call 'Lauren'.
Adam asked Lauren 'Whack me in the bits (his groin) with your hand' Lauren replied 'No', Adam then asked Lauren 'Whack me with this then' (he had hold of a game console case) to which Lauren replied 'No, I might break it'
Lauren then stood up to have a look at the plants in front of the car and to see if i was coming back when Adam put his hand up Lauren's dress. Adam rubbed Lauren's bottom through her pants with his left hand and Lauren said 'Get off'. Adam then said 'Can i touch the front bit (meaning her privates)' but Lauren said 'No' and sat down again.
Adam then asked 'Whack me in the bits with my game console case' and again Lauren replied 'No'.
Adam told Lauren not to tell her mum because he would get into a lot of trouble.
I have always told my daughter not to let anyone touch her 'down there' as it is wrong at her age and that if anyone does she has to tell me. She does not keep any secrets from me and became very upset while she was telling me everything.
I did speak to my friend to let him know what was going on but my daughter had only said that Adam had touched her bottom and she had not told me that Adam had asked to touch her front bits. My friend had a talk with his son who denied everything and said it was sick.
I know that my daughter would not make something like this up but what do i do now that i have the full story. I don't know what to do. I plan to show my friend what i wrote down when my daughter told me everything. My daughter was scared and thought i would not believe her but i do believe her. Can anyone help?
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