My BF is unsupportive and unsympathetic ?

Question

its not all the time and apart from this he's perfect

2 examples are---when i was waiting to see if i had passed my degree i obviously was very up tight the few days before the result. the night before our results was our graduation ball. me and the girls mentioned a few times how nervous we were especially as our tutors were there and they already knew our results. anyway my BFs attitude was basically ''stop going on about it!!!!!!''

and yesterday i was expecting a call regarding a job i was interviewed for and they didn't ring :-( so i told him this and he basically said he couldn't talk to me as he was playing the Wii up his friends!!!!

what a jerk! lol

Answer 1

darlin they are hardly bad the examples youve mentioned!

if you didnt have little disagreements you wouldnt be normal! i wind my boyfriend up sometimes goin on and on about stuff(like my exam results) til he tells me the same - "stop going on about it!!" and the same when he goes on about computer stuff and i say "stop it your boring me!" lol we take it as a joke now though.

and u need to let him have some lad time on his wii- i know you wanna talk to him but really they are best left alone to be lads a little while, if its something important ring a friend about it and have a good long chat.after all u can talk to him any other time!

i dont think hes being unsupportive or unsympathetic at all, just being a typical lad, and he sounds a good boyfriend if you say hes perfect the rest of the time

Answer 2

lol well youve got a gorgeous smile and youre a radiographer so you must be brainy too, maybe hes a bit jealous?  does he have a degree?

have a night out with the girls, maybe he'll show his jealousy then =)

Answer 3

well, repetition begets boredom. maybe if you stop thinking about those things for a while you'll be less stressed too.

Answer 4

Prob. tired of hearing about it, change the subject and be patient, guys don't worry as much as females..

Answer 5

get used to it... familiarity breeds contempt...  

Answer 6

Well in his defense women have a tendancy to push their problems onto other people as a coping mechanism. Sometimes as a guy it's best to just avoid minor things like waiting for calls from potential employers because we can't stress our lives as much as you stress yours. If a family member died or it was something serious I am sure he would be there, but there is no point in stressing things that aren't in your control. If you pass you pass, if you don't you don't, why should he stress out until you know for sure?  

Answer 7

well for the first one you were probably annoying him :P

the second one sounds like something I would do :D

Answer 8

Dump him your an intelligent pretty girl, Maybe he is jealous or more likely he is not interested

Answer 9

You've got yourself a good one there if that's the only 2 problems you have with him!

Answer 10

ok cool

Answer 11

Maybe if you werent so ugly he might support you more.

Answer 12

Well, it could be worse.

He could be like me, too nice and too clingy all the time.

Answer 13

What a jerk =/ My boyfriend always does that too.. sigh