My Best Friend in the Whole World...?

Question

My best friend in the whole world always comes over or invites me over. Normally we see each other at least every other week. Just this past month, she slept over. We had a lot of fun but we stayed up pretty late. Her mom is okay with it but I'm not even sure if she told her dad. I highly doubt that that's the problem because she came over once after that. I have texted her, called her, and emailed her lately but she is always either busy or she didn't even answer. I don't know what's wrong and she is my only good friend. I trust her with all of my secrets. I'm starting to think that some of the other girls are "brainwashing" her. I don't believe it but she started being a cheerleader and then she just started ignoring me. I want my friend back. I miss her. I know it's sappy but she's my best bud. She knows me almost better than I do... and vice-versa.

Answer 1

I think that you should e-mail her and tell her how you're feeling. Make sure you put all of your feelings into this e-mail - and make the subject line something like "important, please don't ignore this" to make her open it. You don't have to accuse other girls of brainwashing her, just tell her that you feel like she's avoiding you lately, because even though she's busy a lot, she never tells you what she's doing and she can't be busy ALL the time, tell her that you're not fussing at her but you really miss her and ask her if she's mad at you or if you did something wrong, or did someone say something bad about you?

And if she doesn't reply to an e-mail in which you pour your heart out to her....give her a couple of weeks....I would send her another one saying that that is all the answer you needed, and tell her good-bye. I hope it works out for you.

Answer 2

go to her house and tell her how you feel. its better to go to her house because that way she cant ignore you. tell her that you miss her and ask her why she is ignoring you.   Hope this helps!  

Answer 3

call her and tell her these things!! but make sure she is really listening and not distracted. or get her over to your house and tell her

Answer 4

you should ask her why she's changing.

YOu call her and try to hang out, in school you talk to her and try to make the same stuff she did before.

She might be getting busy into turning a cheerleader.

Answer 5

Whatever you do don't stop being a friend to your friend if she doesn't hang out with you any more her loss. She must not care she isn't a true friend.

Answer 6

Just explain to her how you feel about the situation... maybe she will understand... if she doesnt and continues the way she has been going then maybe she isnt your best friend.....