My Best Friends Additude?

Question

Ok my friend chelsea gives me a little bit of an attitude ( were both 13) and like i be like yea Chelsea ( in like a kidding way) and she'll be like KATELYN. or sometimes i feel as if she looks down 2 me and my other bff wat now?

Answer 1

Well to be honest I think attitude is part of being a teengage girl. The thing is your friend probably doesn't even realize that she's being mean so you have to talk to her. Let her know that you are just kidding when you say things like that but you feel like she's not and that hurts you. Also let her know that you feel like she looks down to you and your other friend. She probably doesn't know she's hurting you, most people don't want to hurt there friends and will try to stop, as soon as they know there is a problem.

So unless your friend is telepatheic the solution is simple, talk to her and let her know how you feel. (But aviod saying things like "Me and ____ feel like your being a *****", because that will just make her feel like your teaming up against her and she's likely to become even more defensive)

Answer 2

maybe shes not really a friend...try talking to her about this in a nice calm way